Don't go to worship the birthday of a deceased relative. In Tai 'an, Shandong Province, folk customs stipulate that the living live in a foreign land and the dead live on the anniversary (that is, the day of death). People think that death means that new students enter heaven, so future generations only worship on the anniversary of their death. In fact, it is also a memory and grief for the deceased. As long as the old man does his duty and has a clear conscience when he is alive, that's all. Sacrifice after death is actually for the living. Since ancient times, it has also advocated "thick support and thin burial".

It is not recommended to go to the grave on the birthday of the deceased, because that day is not a memorial day. If you rush to the grave, it is likely to destroy the feng shui of the grave, leading to the death of the deceased, the fortune of future generations will also be damaged, and finally the family harmony will be affected. This will not only fail to achieve the purpose of remembering, but also lose the wife and soldiers. This is a very unwise move.

The birthday taboo of the deceased:

1. Don't drink and have fun: this jealous day is a day of remembrance and great sorrow, and we can't enjoy it. The content of pleasure includes drinking and feasting. We should eat something light and try to avoid causing a fire.

2, avoid going to the grave: avoid this day is not a sacrifice day, we don't have to go to the grave, we can put a memorial tablet or photo at home, and then put some melons and fruits to pay homage to the last birthday of the deceased.

3. Avoid marriage: Marriage is a wedding date and must be staggered with the day of great sorrow. Therefore, in the funeral culture, it is forbidden to engage in activities such as marriage on the day of death, otherwise the deceased will not be able to sleep peacefully, which will easily reduce the fortune of the new couple.

4. Don't treat guests: Health taboo is not a sacrifice day, so you don't need to treat a big feast, otherwise it will lose the meaning of the sacrifice day, which will lead to the memory of the dead ancestors and affect the feng shui at home and people's longevity.