Husband doesn't have your performance in his heart
1, he is always against you.
Men care about a person in their hearts and generally give each other more tolerance and understanding. On the other hand, he plays against you everywhere, such as what to buy at home. Now he scoffs at your opinion and even blushes at you. You tried to communicate with him well, but he didn't show any intention of discussing with you calmly; Sometimes I even know. Even if it is his fault in the first place, he will not compromise.
2. Indifference to one's emotions
If you don't care about a person, you won't care about his mood. If your husband often doesn't listen, he doesn't care about your troubles. Sometimes you want to talk to him or discuss some troubles, such as your mother-in-law embarrassing you, and so on. He showed no consolation at all. That is, there is no doubt that you are not in my heart.
3. Words are always full of irony.
Once a man begins to satirize you, it shows that he has a little disgust in his heart, not to mention that he still has you in his heart. For example, I always compare you with "other people's wives". The most hurtful thing is that after the comparison, I will deliberately say something difficult to obey and make you sad.
4. Sweet communication has become a luxury.
You will find that there are fewer and fewer conversations between them. Even if you take the initiative to speak, the conversation is often one-way. You said a long paragraph, and he just responded with "hmm", "oh" and "ah". This is the expression of speech imbalance, which is equivalent to emotional imbalance to some extent. You know, in fact, no matter how silent a man is, if he still loves you, he will not "cherish words like gold." The reason is simple: if he still loves you, he will care about your feelings and explain everything clearly, because he doesn't want you to be paranoid and sad alone.
He likes to find fault with you.
When your husband doesn't have you in his heart, no matter how good you do, it's wrong, just like finding bones in an egg, he is always finding fault with you; What's more, even a small mistake can make him angry. In fact, at this time, the mistake itself is not important. He doesn't like you and naturally loses patience and understanding with you.
Husband has signs of others in his heart.
First of all, the husband becomes silent to you.
If he becomes more and more silent or lacks topics in front of you. But in front of other friends, he showed the same attitude. Then he seldom talks to you about work or interpersonal relationships around him. If you tease him to talk, he will appear absent-minded and blind, which is a signal of marriage crisis.
Second, my husband began to deliberately avoid meeting you.
He began to deliberately reduce the chances of meeting you, and often used different excuses to avoid meeting you. If you are married or living together with him, he often stays at work or plays with his colleagues after work. Of course, even if he doesn't want to stay at home, this situation doesn't necessarily mean that other women appear, only that getting along with you is no longer a pleasant experience.
Third, my husband thinks everything is beginning to be important to you.
In addition to his usual smile, his face was replaced by an indispensable expression. He is avoiding touching your body, which is a potential crisis in your marriage.
Fourth, my husband deliberately avoids sharing a room with you.
If he tries to avoid being in the same room with you and doesn't want to disturb you, aesthetic fatigue will trigger a chain reaction of visual and auditory disgust, which will lead to an uncontrollable situation. Therefore, if your lover seldom talks to you after coming back, try to avoid sharing a room with you for a long time. He doesn't like to share a bed with you, and he doesn't like to stay at home and do housework with you when he is at rest. He would rather go through his clothes than ask you again. In the face of this phenomenon, you really need to take the time to take appropriate measures and communicate with your lover seriously.
He doesn't listen to your nagging anymore.
He no longer takes the initiative to go shopping with you, and he no longer listens to your nagging. Because his aesthetic fatigue will make people show a little disgust that can't be completely hidden, and this disgust will be completely revealed through the casual body movements or expressions of the other party.
For example, you used to go shopping in pairs, or you used to nag and listen, but recently one person is no longer willing to go shopping with you, and you will get angry as soon as you nag another person. Then this subtle change will never happen for no reason.
6. What are the other manifestations of your husband's indifference to you?
1, he doesn't want to talk to you Even if you are talking, you are absent-minded or a person is addicted to online chat.
He refuses to work with you, but never refuses the invitation of colleagues or friends.
I'm not interested in sex life, and I can't even handle it.
He no longer cares about you actively because you are dispensable to him.
When you left in a rage, he stopped calling to apologize and advised you to change your mind.
6, he began to see you not pleasing to the eye or directly suggested that you wear another style of clothes or confidently said: Why can't you talk and wear clothes like XXX?
He has his own secrets and doesn't want to tell you anything more. You want to talk to him, but he feels speechless.
8. Keep your mobile phone strictly, and turn it into vibration as soon as you get home or go to the toilet to answer the phone.
He often works overtime and even goes on business trips, but in fact, his work is not that busy at all.
10, he began to think that romance was a stupid thing and didn't bother about it.
Most marriages after derailment are happy, but thorns are always there.
Nowadays, cheating seems to be a common occurrence for both men and women, and the cheating rate is quite high. As a husband and wife, no matter who cheated, as long as things are exposed, such couples choose to forgive and restore the past. For example, Ma Yili excused the article by "doing and cherishing" and took many measures. However, cheating is actually unforgivable to anyone from the root. Even if you forgive him on the surface, you can't forgive him from the heart. It can be said that although some couples did not divorce in the end, it seems impossible for such couples to be happy again, just because of their children, property or face. We don't know what Ma Yili really thinks about the article's derailment. Maybe it's real happiness. We hope so too. After all, they have a lovely horse. However, there is no doubt that in real life, there are very few people who talk about marriage or love after derailment, and there are really very few people who have completely recovered from the past.
The data shows that it is difficult to say happiness in most marriages after cheating.
Some surveys have found that in real life, many couples who have had an affair either end up divorced or have no substance in form, but they are struggling to maintain it for their children or other reasons. It is a kind of torment for both sides, because the derailed party can't lift its head from now on, while the other party will feel ashamed and insulted as long as something touches it, and it may break out at any time. The cheating party chooses to forgive or reveal a kind of helplessness. Sometimes, in the face of men's infidelity, women finally choose to forgive. In fact, they reveal a kind of helplessness, either a compromise with their families and children, or inferiority and fear of divorce. Ma Yili, for example, may have such factors. Ma Yili divorced, and once the article paid attention to Ma Yili's marriage history and children. Although Ma Yili wants to keep her marriage by having more children, it is inevitable that the article will eventually cheat. Perhaps it is for this reason that many women are afraid to divorce when they encounter marital misfortune, because they have neither the courage nor sufficient reasons to think that the next marriage will be happy. Why did Ma Yili sigh after learning that the article was derailed? It is precisely because she has had a failed marriage that she knows the hardships of marriage and the virtues of men.