I will bring four gifts to my in-laws.
1, major
For in-laws who are not in the same region, especially in the same province, it is a very good choice to bring local specialties, which represents great respect for each other.
2. Nutrition
For the elderly, nutrition can't be wrong. It's a good choice to see your in-laws and bring some nutrition. If there are elders in the other person's family, bring nutrition to send condolences.
3. wine
Bring wine to the door, you can't choose the wrong one. No matter whether the other person drinks or not, delivering wine in China is valued by gift-giving representatives, so it is a universal gift.
4. tea
Tea is a traditional drink in China. Many middle-aged people like to kill time by drinking tea and making a cup of tea every day, so it is very practical to send tea. Even if the other party doesn't drink it, it can be treasured.
The whole process of meeting in-laws
1. Discuss in advance. Before the meeting, discuss the time, place and general content of the meeting. If it's the first time we meet and we haven't communicated before, we can communicate with our children first and then exchange information with each other.
Step 2 Determine the place and time
If you choose one of the cities, then the parents of that side should set the meeting place in advance. If you go to their children's city, their children will prepare for it.
Step 3 talk while eating
People in China like to talk about things at the dinner table, so when eating in a restaurant or at home, they can start to negotiate what needs to be negotiated and what to discuss in detail.
4. Say goodbye politely
After the discussion, you can say goodbye politely. If the discussion is pleasant, we can make an appointment to meet and discuss it next time. If the discussion is unpleasant, you should also say goodbye politely. After all, marriage is a big deal and needs to be negotiated slowly.