Everyone has a "family account" to store happiness and happiness. Only when you make progress can you come out.

Sometimes, quarreling is inevitable, but the love between family members can always bring support and strength to each other. If this account is accidentally overdrawn, how can this family live?

My family account was overdrawn at one time. Through the study of "family learning", I once again saw the importance of this "family background".

This is a story of "saving money", with a history of our family's struggle to "turn losses into profits".

2020 is a gloomy year for our small family.

At the end of 20 19, my teammates and my husband had a great contradiction, so in the past year, we either had a cold war, had a little quarrel or even had the idea of divorce.

Our family account is definitely unable to make ends meet this year.

In the new year, we set a goal: to save more money for family account.

Save money during the Spring Festival

During the Chinese New Year, my mother-in-law and I are responsible for preparing the New Year's Eve dinner, and my teammates are responsible for posting the Spring Festival couplets of two families (in-laws' family and mother-in-law's family).

After posting the Spring Festival couplets, the preparations for the New Year's Eve dinner are almost finished. At the New Year's Eve dinner, my teammates took the initiative to peel crabs for my son and me.

My son and I spent the Spring Festival at home this year, and my teammates were very happy. Although he finished eating soon, he stayed at the table and chatted with us.

We talked while drinking, and the New Year's Eve dinner lasted until after 8 pm. During this time, my teammates made us vegetables, cut meat, bacon, skewers and kebabs, and later made us yogurt jelly.

After my mother-in-law and I finished eating, my teammates also took the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks. On this day, my affirmation of my husband continues:

"Husband, you have worked hard!"

"Husband, the mutton string looks very handsome!"

"Husband, we are so happy, you give us kebabs."

……

There are countless expressions of love between us.

Spring Festival "saving money"

20 19 and 2020, my son and I spent the Spring Festival with my mother and grandmother at my mother's house. My mother-in-law is inevitably a little lonely here. Fortunately, my teammates accompanied my brother-in-law.

But this year, because of the epidemic, my brother-in-law can't come back in Shandong. This year's New Year's Eve dinner was prepared by my mother-in-law and me.

Mother-in-law is very happy, humming a little song while preparing. I know, that's because my son and I are at home for the Spring Festival this year.

Early in the morning, my mother-in-law began to be busy preparing ingredients, discussing with me what to cook, and reviewing some recipes on her mobile phone and notebook.

I affirmed my mother-in-law's carefulness and eagerness to learn, and she smiled from ear to ear.

In the process of preparing for the New Year's Eve dinner, my mother-in-law and I completely entered the mutual assistance mode. I said that my mother-in-law is very hard, and my mother-in-law said that I am very considerate. We cooked separately and praised each other for their good work.

In such a harmonious and warm atmosphere, the two of us prepared a sumptuous dinner and didn't feel tired at all.

Before the New Year's Eve, I asked my mother-in-law to put on the new clothes I bought for her to take pictures. Although she is very distressed about money, she is very happy. She kept saying, "Buy me new clothes. The cupboard is full of new clothes you bought me ... "

On holidays, my mother-in-law and I will have a drink. This year's Spring Festival, my mother-in-law packed jiaozi in advance, just to have a good drink.

During the dinner, I apologized to my mother-in-law.

Because my mother is alone, so is my mother-in-law. I have been leading my children at my parents' house for the New Year for two years in a row, without accompanying my mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law said, "Our family didn't say that you are far away from your mother's family, and you can only go back once a year. If you are close to our home, you can come back at any time, and there is only you, your mother and grandma. Too lonely. "

"But this year you and Han Han are at home for the New Year, and I am so happy. I feel very lively. I don't want my youngest son (brother-in-law) to come back! "

Special thanks to my mother-in-law for her understanding and tolerance!

My mother-in-law and I chat from 2 pm to 8 pm and from day to night.

My mother-in-law is really a "warrior". After drinking the wine, she still calmly washed the dishes. I looked at her adoringly and praised her again and again: "You are amazing!"

At 0: 00, we set off firecrackers and fireworks, ate hot jiaozi, stayed up late together and chatted with melon seeds, and had a wonderful New Year's Eve.

Valentine's day "save money" teammates

Today is Valentine's Day, and we have never celebrated it, because, in the words of our teammates, it is a holiday for foreigners and a stunt of commercial speculation.

That's true, but my teammates cooked for us today.

These days, I am the chef most of the time, and my mother-in-law is helping me.

After breakfast today, his teammates said that he cooked at night. I said, "OK, is this for me on Valentine's Day?"

Teammate Gherardini said: "That's because what you fried tastes bad!" " "

I thought: You just lay there. ...

Tonight, I praised my teammate's food without reservation and expressed my gratitude and love for him. My teammates were elated and peeled a candy and stuffed it into my mouth, which was sweeter than honey.

Teammates and sons

If it is not cloudy today, I really want to see if the sun rises in the west.

My father and son just gave me two cans of honey. Oh, my God, I almost got drunk. ...

The first can of "honey"-teammates

Today, I promised my children to visit grandma at night. We want to leave early so as not to delay the rest of the old lady.

So, before my teammates got off work, I took on the heavy responsibility of burning kang.

Almost every day, teammates burn kang. I have burned kang only a handful of times, and some people worry that my skills are not good.

I didn't expect my teammates to say in surprise as soon as they entered the door: "Oh, why don't you smoke when the fire is on?" How does it smell like smoke when it burns? "

I said, "No? I feel nothing. "

The teammate replied with a smile: "There is no smell of smoke, I can smell meat. Your technology of burning kang is ok now, better than me! " "

I said happily, "Ouch! You began to praise me! "

The teammate nodded shyly and said, "Well, really, you are very good now. You can burn the kang in the future. Hahahaha ... "

Me: ...

I know my teammates are just teasing me. He won't let me go to the kitchen pit as long as there are no special circumstances.

The second jar of "honey"-son

I cooked braised pork that I learned from my mother-in-law for dinner. The children tasted it and told me at once:

"Mom, the pork you cooked today is soft! Lean meat is also soft, fragrant and delicious! "

I said to myself, "Really? That mother succeeded this time! "

The children reached out their little hands and gave me a high five and said, "Well, what you did today was very successful. Mom, thank you! "

I was so happy that I replied, "Oh, thank you for your compliment!" " "

Save money on teammates' birthdays

The eleventh day of the first month is the birthday of teammates, which happens to be the first day of work after the festival.

Although I was very tired after a meeting all morning, I prepared a big table for my teammate because I thought it was his birthday.

The preparation process is hard, the kitchen knife is not fast enough, and the kitchen light is broken.

Although the food didn't taste very good, my mother-in-law and I drank some wine, and the family chatted, and my son was also very funny. This birthday is still very beautiful.

I'm sure I can happily prepare my teammates' birthdays and save some money for our family account.

Counting "deposits" and looking forward to the future

Since I studied the course "Family Model and Couple Emotion", I have been constantly changing myself and making progress, which has affected the relationship between my teammates and us.

Our family account is really happy from "making ends meet" to "making ends meet".

When I go to work during the day, I will chat with my teammate WeChat and send expressions to each other.

On weekends or small festivals, we will video chat with our mother-in-law, or have a small dinner for a family of four;

On weekends, when we have time, we will take our children to play. On February 2, our family of four also agreed to go to the river to watch the fireworks show. ...

Our family of three started laughing, and our "savings" gradually increased.

I will continue to study hard, change myself, influence my family and make our harmonious period last forever.

Editor/Huang Huiwen, Doudou

Typesetting/? Zhou xinrong

Picture/pixabay &; Pexcel

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