Many people’s tempers will change when they get old. Maybe a couple who got along well when they were young can’t get along even a day when they get old. So what should they do at this time? Woolen cloth?

What should an elderly couple do if they can no longer live together?

1. Both parties should calm down for a few days. Husband and wife must not try to recover in anger, because people are easily swayed by emotions, and asking why in anger can easily lead to more marital conflicts. Therefore, if you want to save your love, you must first calm down and give each other a buffer period.

2. Find out the source of the quarrel. You must find out the source of the quarrel and don't just talk about divorce. You must know that no couple's first quarrel leads to divorce. Marriage problems must be the result of long-term accumulation of conflicts. Find out the problems in the relationship between husband and wife and know where you went wrong. Maybe you can save your marriage more easily.

3. Take the initiative to give him steps. Husband and wife don't have an overnight feud, so forget it and treat the quarrel as the spice of life. Just come once in a while is enough. Be considerate of each other and take the initiative to give him a step down.

4. Avoid being impulsive. It's not like young people fighting over trivial things. Don't be impulsive just because you are young. Although youth is capital, mistakes you make can never be undone in your lifetime. I hope everyone will think more about it before taking action. Solving things with violence will only make the situation more serious. Being together is fate and emotion. Cherishing and caring for each other will make the road ahead smoother, farther and happier.

5. Let go appropriately. Don't control everything. Didn't your husband live a good life without you in the past? After joining you, if you have to take care of everything, even your husband's basic life, you will really become a nanny. Let go appropriately and complete your own affairs.

What should older couples do if they don’t want to be together?

It’s been so many years since their personalities have been at odds, so a temporary separation may not be a bad thing. If you don't have to worry about children, you can choose divorce. It is recommended that you separate for a while, one goes out and the other stays at home, so as to give each other some space.

Should elderly couples get divorced if they can’t survive?

Cao Xueqin wrote in "A Dream of Red Mansions" that there is no such thing as a feast that never ends! The same is true for couples, who can truly remain in love and grow old together. It's a minority. Especially in today's society, the number of couples getting divorced has become an increasing trend year by year. This can't help but make people sigh. Is it because people's hearts are not ancient, or is it the trend of the times, or the cost of development, maybe a combination of both!

It is worth mentioning that in ancient times, marriage was ordered by the parents and the matchmaker. In other words, the man and woman may not have met before marriage, but after marriage, it is like stew on a low fire, and the relationship slowly simmers out. But in today's free love marriages, the passion is in the love stage. After reaching the stage of marriage, the relationship becomes dull. Which one is better and which one is worse, maybe it’s really hard to say!

Why old couples can’t live together

1 Complaining to each other

Complaining actually expresses accusation and If you threaten someone, the other party will naturally retaliate in kind, leading to an escalation of the conflict.

2 Random Suspicions

The suspicion made both people angry and difficult to communicate, and eventually the relationship broke down.

3. Demand each other according to their own living habits

After all, husband and wife are two different individuals. Being demanding and demanding each other according to their own living habits will make the family full of gunpowder.

4. Not negotiating when things happen

Family matters need to be negotiated by two people together. People who only care about their own happiness and ignore what the other person thinks will not be able to maintain good family relations.