Kindergarten is a stage in which parents love and hate each other when children grow up. They love those children who finally get rid of them. They have free space and teachers to look after them. But what is distressing is that kindergartens often have all kinds of manual work and group activities, which bring a lot of trouble to parents.
It stands to reason that parents and children participate in activities and do homework together, which is conducive to cultivating parent-child feelings, but parents also resent too many activities or too much trouble.
Ms. Liu is a post-90 s treasure mom. Her son is in the middle class in kindergarten. Her son used to be a very shy boy, who didn't like to talk much and didn't take the initiative. But after a long time in kindergarten, I became cheerful and actively participated in the daily teaching of teachers.
The homework and various activities arranged by the teacher are also regarded as imperial edicts, and Ms. Liu is also very active in them, feeling that it is a rare time to interact with her children.
Once when my son came home, the teacher sent a notice to his parents that the kindergarten would hold a hundred banquets on weekends, and parents could freely choose to participate according to the situation. My son is very excited about the activity, so he must take his mother to participate. Ms. Liu intended to take her children to attend. After all, the teacher said it was not good to go.
However, it is embarrassing that Ms. Liu Can can't cook. Husband and mother-in-law always cook at home, but looking at her son's eager eyes, Ms. Liu decided to learn to cook for her children. Finally, with the help of her mother-in-law, Ms. Liu successfully made scrambled eggs with tomatoes. Although this dish is simple, it is a household name and there is no shame in eating it.
On the day of the activity, Ms. Liu took this dish to the kindergarten. Unexpectedly, there was a table of dishes in the classroom. To Ms. Liu's surprise, several dishes were scrambled eggs with tomatoes, egg custard, egg cake and so on. Some families are lazy and bring a few tea eggs, lamenting that a hundred banquets have become "egg banquets".
It can be seen that parents are very perfunctory, but because it is an activity organized by kindergarten, not participating in it will make the teacher's face bad, so they simply fool around.
For many activities held in kindergartens, there are some complicated homework, and parents are also talking about it. Some think it is a good activity, which is helpful to children's growth and enhance parent-child feelings. However, some parents think that some activities are unnecessary and meaningless, and they will only toss their parents.
Some activities need to use all kinds of cartons and milk powder barrels, and there is none at home. Parents have to borrow it everywhere for their children's homework, and even spend money to buy another one, which has caused great waste. And some manual activities are so time-consuming that children can't finish them at all.
In addition to enhancing parent-child feelings, manual homework is also to cultivate children's practical ability, but in fact, many parents are doing it, and children are observing, but they don't really participate, which violates the original intention of manual homework.
Kindergartens often hold some activities and homework, and some homework and activities still have some merits, so parents should observe them rationally.
First, enhance interest and broaden your horizons.
For example, on some important festivals, kindergartens will hold some activities. Teachers will take their children to learn dancing and singing, and parents will come to watch the children's performances the day before the festival. This is not only interesting, but also makes children feel proud in front of their parents.
Second, simple manual labor can enhance parent-child relationship.
Some simple manual homework, which children can participate in and finish with their parents, is very beneficial to their growth, improves the time between parents and children, and can be regarded as high-quality companionship. Moreover, manual homework can also enhance children's self-confidence and make them more proud of their parents.