Miss Lin, 25 years old, emotional self-report:
I recall knowing Lin Hui five years ago. He is a tall, handsome and sunny boy. It is precisely because of these bright spots that I am deeply attracted by him, and he is also addicted to my liveliness and cheerfulness. We all like each other, have common feelings, and then we confide in each other and get together.
I didn't go to college in high school, and my family conditions were average, so I didn't want to repeat it. So, I came to this bustling city alone to work hard. I worked as a waiter, salesman, etc. And I also suffered a lot. I dare not tell my family that I will not give good news every time. At the age of twenty, I met Lin Hui at work, and our happy and sweet time began.
In the past five years, we have experienced many things together. We quarreled about some things, but we tolerated each other. Lin Hui is a boy with a delicate mind and is good at taking care of people. It is because of him that my life in this city will not be so monotonous. I have also decided that he is the one who will accompany me all my life. I believe that our long-distance relationship will bear fruit one day.
After I agreed to propose, Lin Hui and I decided to go back to our hometown to meet our parents, so that our parents could formally meet and book our wedding. Many things need to be discussed by both parents. My parents are still satisfied with Lin Hui, but Lin Hui's parents are not satisfied with me. They always want their daughter to be with Lin Hui at the same time, but Lin Hui has no idea about that girl, so there is no way.
Speaking of marriage, Lin Hui's parents said nothing about the bride price. This is all a discussion between Lin Hui himself and my parents. In fact, Lin Hui knew that his parents would not pay the bride price, so he decided to pay it himself. However, my parents are just going through the motions. When we got married, they came back with the money as a dowry, but who would have thought that Lin Hui's parents were very unhappy when they heard that Lin Hui gave the bride price privately.
Not only did he talk nonsense behind my back, but he also came to me and said, "prospective daughter-in-law, if you really love my son, you shouldn't ask for a bride price." After all, you are not very good-looking. You are lucky to marry my son. He is so handsome, he has no worries about finding an object and is willing to post a lot. " After listening to those words, I think Lin Hui is very good, but with such a strong mother-in-law, marriage can't be happy, not to mention many trivial things in marriage. What will happen if I don't respect marrying their family? In the case of Lin Hui's aggressive mother, I chose to break up. I'm really afraid of such a family.
Hello, Mr. Lin. Facing your affairs, I want to say that as long as you don't regret your choice, it's right. We have heard the saying many times, "This is a sorrow that all mankind must know, but it is not as people who have been poor together know." In life, many people think that only with love can there be bread. It was not until they got married that they realized that love without bread had finally gone bad. Just like a custom of marriage-bride price, some people don't want bride price for love, and finally find themselves the first to look down on themselves. The ideal marriage is far from the real marriage, and the inner bitterness has nowhere to go. Sometimes you have to see what you need and follow your heart.