1, if your personality is not suitable, maybe your personality belongs to a strong one, and he belongs to a gentle one, so your strength makes him feel oppressive, and he will be very tired when he is with you. Maybe you are weak, and he wants to be independent of you, but your personality is hard to meet his psychological expectations. So he began to be picky, and you felt more inferior, cowardly and indecisive.

If your boyfriend is a rational and reasonable person, you can break up peacefully, tell him frankly and tell him what the problem is. For example, it can be said that two people are incompatible, or have no feelings.

3. In fact, if it is really an unforgettable feeling and tears, regardless of gender, it just shows that you attach importance to this relationship. There is nothing to be ashamed of. I think everyone who gives his heart is equal emotionally, and no one is made of steel. I may be a negative person. If I break up with someone I really like, I never want to see her again, because that will only make me think more. The ugly point is that I choose to escape.

It may be painful when you just break up, but it's better to have long-term pain than short-term pain. After all, two unsuitable people will not last long together, and being together is also painful for each other.