I divorced my ex-husband because he had a woman outside. I can't accept it. Even if he admits his mistake, I won't allow my marriage to be defiled. At my insistence, we chose to divorce. Why did my ex-husband do such a thing in his marriage? I don't want to pursue the reason. It must be my fault, but my ex-husband has crossed over and I don't want to ask any more questions. After the divorce, my ex-husband gave me the child.
I will ignore many children because of my work. I will send my children to school every morning and pick them up after work at night. If I really get off work late, I'll ask my ex-husband to take care of them for me. I will pick her up after work. Occasionally, on weekends, my ex-husband will take the children to play. Every time I am outside, the children are so happy. Once I get home, I will become bored again. I have also communicated with children. I asked if you were dissatisfied with my mother. The child will say, no! Anyway, you divorced dad, and I have no say.
I am sorry to hear what the child said. I want a divorce because I don't want my child to know that his father is outside with another woman. I didn't explain why when I divorced. Because my child is still in the first grade and I don't want her to know, I always feel indebted to my child. I always give her the best in her study and life, so as not to make her feel that I don't care about her, and sometimes I give her counseling, but it's useless.
Seeing that the summer vacation is coming and there is no time to take care of the children, I will discuss with my ex-husband whether the children can accompany him for a while. My ex-husband agreed to my request, and I said I would trouble you to take care of them this time. I won't bother you next time I arrange it. My ex-husband said, don't be so polite. How many children does he have? I spent a month before the summer vacation at my ex-husband's mother's house, because my mother had arranged for me to take care of the children.
It happened to be my daughter's birthday, and I'm going out to eat. My mother said it was not clean outside, so she said she was cooking at home. In order not to let the children feel lonely, I called my ex-husband to dinner. My ex-husband came home and called my mother politely. My daughter flew with joy when she saw her ex-husband's arrival. I've never seen my daughter do this to me. Although I was wronged, I didn't show it. I asked my daughter to wash her hands when preparing for dinner.
I held back my anger at the child and thought it was her birthday, so I didn't care. After a while, my ex-husband brought food to the child, and I saw that the child actually ate it with his hands. I didn't know it was a bad habit formed there, so I couldn't help losing my temper. I still beat her up on her birthday. My ex-husband and mother watched me beat the children and advised me. After I calmed down, I went to ask my ex-husband. I said it before.
I don't know what to do when I look at the child. I feel indebted to her. In order to make her grow up happily and prevent her from lacking her father's care, I asked my ex-husband to take her to accompany him from time to time, but I got into the habit of watching the children cry badly. I'm worried too. I don't know what to do next