At the age of eighteen, I joined the army, ate a pot of rice, trained and studied together, and formed a deep friendship of war, which was like brothers.
Seeing the monitor of the new recruit, I had mixed feelings and burst into tears. I can't forget his concern and severity for me, and let me retire step by step in my future military career.
I can't forget the company commander, instructor and platoon leader's preference for me as a rural youth. I joined the party, entered the school and got a promotion. I gave the green light all the way, and it didn't matter. At that time, the atmosphere of the troops was real.
As long as you work hard, the honor you deserve must be yours. I miss the growing environment of the troops at that time and the true feelings of my comrades at that time.
Hello, I'm Maya, a demobilized cadre, and I'm very happy to talk about my views on this topic.
I don't know once upon a time, the comrades-in-arms party suddenly exploded in the folk, blossoming everywhere and being very lively. Personally, I don't approve of this organized and undisciplined large-scale gathering of comrades-in-arms, and it is not worth advocating.
Personally, I have twice refused to get together with my comrades in different names, not because I feel superior and disdain to associate with them, nor because I am narcissistic and unsociable. I just think that most comrades-in-arms gatherings are just wrapped in the coat of "reminiscing about war friendship" and "drinking eggs", which is really unnecessary. The general process of this comrade-in-arms gathering is to visit the old company (in fact, it has a certain impact on the company's work, of course, some of them may be directly rejected), take a group photo as a souvenir, have dinner and drink, and get drunk.
I resist this "stale and nutritious" comrade-in-arms party for three main reasons:
First, comrades-in-arms gatherings have become a stage for a few people to show off their wealth. In fact, this is also a common problem for most people in this meeting and that meeting. Whether comrades-in-arms or classmates, everyone's ability level and development opportunities are different, which will inevitably lead to a great gap between social status and personal wealth. At parties, there will always be a small number of so-called successful comrades who want to take this opportunity to satisfy the vanity of their successful people. If you must label people as successful people with so-called "status" or "wealth" in the secular world, no matter how well you get along, comrades need not feel ashamed or arrogant. There is no need to compare with each other, to love the poor and the rich, and not to be cynical and hurt each other.
Second, the comrades-in-arms gathering has become a utilitarian marketing meeting. Since the comrades-in-arms meeting has unfortunately become a poor show by a few people, naturally there are some people with ulterior motives to join in the fun. There are hundreds of people, all kinds. After leaving the army, I am eager for quick success and instant benefit. I always want to get rich overnight, live an enviable life, drive a luxury car, live in a villa and embrace beautiful women. Driven by this deviation from the normal track values, these people dare to take risks and engage in some pyramid schemes that are on the verge of breaking the law. These people's keen sense of smell and greed for unexpected wealth will naturally not miss the good opportunities to accumulate contacts such as comrades-in-arms gatherings. After a few pleasantries, I definitely asked to leave my phone number and add a WeChat, and I will contact you often in the future. The meaning of drunkenness is not wine! There will be many things that will bother you in the future.
Third, the gathering of comrades-in-arms has evolved into a battlefield for eating, drinking and having fun. The highlight of most comrades-in-arms gatherings must be gathering and drinking, and the climax often occurs when everyone is drunk and in full swing. I have no objection to drinking. As the saying goes, nothing can be achieved without drinking. What's more, soldiers, in the eyes of ordinary people, are generous people who are not drunk for thousands of cups. As the saying goes, drinking is not drunk. Between comrades-in-arms, a few drinks and a moderate pause can enhance feelings. However, most of the comrades got together, but there was a scene of disharmony. The banquet is full of unhealthy phenomena such as persuasion and beating. A fierce battle on the wine table must be a mess, drunk and ugly. Some people are immoral after drinking, talk nonsense and say things they shouldn't, but they hurt the feelings of their comrades-in-arms for many years.
To tell the truth, even a company that joined the army in the same year, how many people have the same mind? "Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups." Personally, I think that comrades-in-arms who share the same feelings, if they live far away, usually communicate by phone or WeChat to exchange feelings. If you have money and leisure, you can visit each other, drink tea and make wine, and recall bitter experiences without disturbing normal family life. Why not?
It is inevitable that the words of one family are biased. Welcome to discuss and communicate below.
The first Saturday of 1 1 every year is the day when our comrades in Huaiyin Box get together. We set out from Huaiyin on 19861October 9, and arrived in Fujian on 165438+, where we became a glorious pontoon bridge soldier. During my stay in the army, most of my comrades-in-arms retired from active service one after another, but several of them were admitted to the military academy. After so many years, there are no comrades in the army now. Among our 37 comrades-in-arms, there are all kinds of occupations, from directors to small traders, workers and drivers, but every year, comrades-in-arms parties take the initiative to sign them up, and the expenses for the parties are AA. Let's brag and chat about our work, life and family. There is no distinction between high and low, and it is enjoyable. Comrades have been together for 12 years. Fortunately, 37 comrades did not "fall behind". Here, I wish all comrades a smooth work and a happy family!
It doesn't make any sense. It's just a show. If the country recruits together, we will live and die together, that will be too exciting. A few days ago, a 70-year-old soldier told me that recently, more than 70 comrades-in-arms from all provinces in China paid 500 yuan for seven days in Jiujiang and Lushan. He is tired of making arrangements every day. In the future, we won't hold such a party again. I say it's better to be a soldier in' 68. It's been 70 years since I was discharged from the hospital. There is no internet, no cell phone, no phone, no contact, and there are not so many things. About 70 people can't stand it. But the true feelings of former comrades have always been there! Remember, being a soldier together will always be comrades in arms! I wish all comrades who have served in the army good health, happiness and longevity!
As August 1st approaches, the gathering of comrades-in-arms has become a hot topic again. Let's talk about some suggestions from the topic of the subject.
One-day comrades-in-arms, lifelong brothers, and proper gatherings are beyond reproach. Comrades haven't seen each other for years or even decades. Occasionally, I will organize revisiting the old place or gathering in different places, asking questions, recalling the past, tasting delicious food, enjoying the beautiful scenery and taking photos as a souvenir. It seems that I have returned to the moment when I entered the military camp, and I really have an unparalleled mood.
But after all, the old comrades have not seen each other for many years, and great changes have taken place in various aspects such as health. In many ways, they often can't do it, and a little carelessness often leads to lifelong regret.
Most participants in the comrades-in-arms party are very happy, but the organization of eating, living, traveling and playing is very complicated. The activities should be small but not big, and the activities should be refined but not excessive. Cross-administrative region, cross the original unit, you should think twice before joining in the fun.
Conclusion: With the increase of age, the resistance and immune function of the elderly decrease year by year. Before the COVID-19 epidemic is relieved, all parties are unnecessary risks. Taking care of your unique body is the best treasure for family and friendship.
Whether it is for comrades' reference, welcome to communicate, thank you!
Just put a label on the gay party. It doesn't matter if you are excited about friendship. When we don't get together, we especially look forward to meeting thousands of miles away. Being together for a period of time rarely reminds me of my years as a soldier. After a long time, it's a little bleak. Show off and show off. To tell the truth, comrades in the party must be influential comrades with social status, unhappy life and contact information. However, as a powerful comrade in arms, we all know the contact information. I once went to XinBingLian to visit a comrade-in-arms. When I left, I didn't pay attention to saying: I have time to see my home. It was winter. I didn't expect this comrade-in-arms to get off the train one stop earlier because he didn't know the way. He walked hundreds of miles on a snowy night and found my house all the way in the middle of the night. Unfortunately, there was no one at home and he didn't look at it, so all the new leather shoes were open. This friendship is sincere. After 26 years of demobilization, he never attended the comrades-in-arms party, which made him feel meaningless. He is insincere and pretentious at the dinner table. I invited him several times, but I didn't understand at that time. However, in his early years, he often attended comrades-in-arms meetings, and various situations occurred, and he gradually understood him. Friendship and brotherhood in war may not be deeper. That's the old watchtower that used to be on duty.
I am a soldier of 1977. I have been discharged from the army for 43 years, during which there were two large-scale comrades-in-arms gatherings. According to the viewpoint, there are 6 small-scale gatherings, and the two large gatherings are basically harmonious. Friendship in the war, especially in the era when we lived, paid more attention to feelings than now. During his service, he just caught up with China's self-defense counterattack against Vietnam. Because we are the air force, we have no chance to participate in the war, but we are also very nervous. The camp radio station is on duty 24 hours a day, and the elevator on duty takes off and lands regularly. It is also close to a state of war, and all actions are more tense and serious than before. During the period, a combat emergency assembly will be added once a week, and the bullets of the sentry on duty will go to class just to turn off the insurance. When changing jobs, the bullets of the laid-off soldiers returned to the court to check their guns and left the sentry post.
Comrades in our party used to be basically a unit. Only a few comrades were directly assigned to a certain unit of the military region after the training of the recruits. The night before each comrade-in-arms party, it was basically memories. Now they are over 60 years old. Our company commander and platoon leader are all dead, and our comrades are still alive. They were all Beijing soldiers when they left the army, and the jobs arranged after returning to Beijing were quite good. Because of age, we all remember that when we met, the day has come, and we want to live a better life in our later years. Our slogan now, comrades-in-arms, is rare. Nobody leaves before 99: 00!
How can comrades not be together? What do you mean by eating and drinking? I've been a soldier for three years, but I haven't seen you for ten years. Eating costs your family money. At first glance, you have never been a soldier. There are 57 million veterans in China, which is also a valuable asset of the country. A former soldier dedicated his youth to the country and did his duty. This is a complete man. I hate those people most, saying that people who have been soldiers are stupid. If there were no soldiers, we would live a happy life now. As an outsider, you are not qualified to comment on soldiers.
The gathering of comrades-in-arms has gained momentum in recent years. Generally, there are three parts: gathering blessings, visiting memories and chanting.
I support a healthy and happy gathering of comrades once a year or once every 3-5 years: recalling the past, forgetting the future and deepening feelings. I object to tasteless and vulgar parties.
Our company won the second class merit for three consecutive years and was awarded the first class merit by the Liaoning provincial government. Comrades are in harmony and unity, and the company has strong cohesion and combat effectiveness. All kinds of competitions, competitions and appraisals organized by the brigade camp are basically between the first and the second. More than 20 years later, comrades-in-arms in Dalian organized company gatherings, and more than 100 comrades-in-arms came from all over the country. Everyone is very excited. They visited the company, saw the scenery, tasted farm food, shouted slogans, walked in line, sang duets and went to Tongniu Ridge of Development Zone. The climax of the two dinner parties is wave after wave accompanied by song and dance, each wave is stronger than the other …
This gathering further deepened the affection between our comrades-in-arms, especially the company of that year. From this party, I love our company's comrades-in-arms more, and I love the company that fought in those years more. The connotation of the years when the passion was burning was further sublimated in the gathering: fitness, happiness, sunshine and upward …
Comrades drink a lot when they meet comrades! In the circle of friends around me, all the former soldiers can drink, but some can't drink much. Let's cut short the gossip. About the comrades-in-arms party, I am like this:
First, "comrades-in-arms, comrades-in-arms, brothers and sisters", comrades-in-arms get together, get together and remember the years of being a soldier together. With the growth of age, the time to leave the army is getting longer and longer, and it is still very difficult for brothers who once carried guns together to get together. Generally, people who organize parties will inform everyone of the time, place, cost plan and activities one month in advance. In fact, it is very difficult to really get everyone together, because there will always be various emergencies leading to absence.
Second, when comrades get together, they just eat, drink and be merry, talk about life and ideals. When they get married, ask their girlfriends if they have implemented it. If they don't have a girlfriend, everyone can help find a way to fix them up. If they are married, talk about their married life, exchange experiences, and talk about parenting methods if they have children. However, these are not the most important links, and the fun is yet to come!
Thirdly, with the deepening of the party, people drank more and more wine, some people began to talk awkwardly, some tongues began to knot, and the climax of the party came slowly. At this time, they usually do what they often do in the army, sing together, laugh at their comrades-in-arms with slots, or recall the stupid things they did when they were soldiers. In the end, they always get drunk, as if they were back in the hot military camp and the training ground where the killing was deafening!
Finally, I think comrades-in-arms parties are much purer than ordinary classmates' parties. At the party, there was no boss or leader, only a class, a platoon, a company and even a group of brothers who risked their lives together! After retiring from the army, everyone has his own aspirations and goes his own way, but I always believe that all roads lead to Rome, and as long as you don't give up your perseverance as a soldier, you will always succeed!