I have experienced too many quarrels like this.

First of all, you must understand that being angry, depressed and hurting your body is not good for anyone. Everything will pass. No one will definitely continue to follow their own logic, so control your sadness. The method is: you can go outside to relax, or find a video game machine to shoot basketball or something. Once your body is tired, you can sleep

Secondly: Your situation is not suitable for breaking up. You will definitely regret it if you break up. , I also got back together after a breakup, and it’s more serious than yours. Then he must definitely tell you that he loves you, otherwise he will not be angry with you, so you have to relax and don't hurt yourself.

In addition: If you love him, you want him to be good, and you must actually change yourself. When you are angry, think, I love him, so I must tolerate him and make him feel more comfortable and happy. Think about how Zhao Qian in "Xun Qin Ji" loves Xiang Shaolong so stupidly. Men don't have that much thought and won't worry about trivial matters. You need to change your mindset. Don’t get angry easily over trivial things. If you want to be loved, getting angry is not the answer. On the contrary, you have to make a 180-degree turn on yourself: If you encounter something that you usually get angry about, think about these friends on the web who have said so without regrets. Help you by contributing your own perspective on how they handled it. Everything will be dealt with positively - if it were me, I would never bother with such a thing again. I will choose an elegant place, have a good meal, find a place to eat where I want to eat, and eat what I like.

This matter itself should be able to help you solve it in the eyes of others, but there will be many such conflicts in the future, so the most important thing is that the two of you must resolve the problem sincerely.

You yourself must learn to adjust to a positive state, think of positive solutions when encountering problems, persuade yourself what the happy ending will be, what will be the effect of a quarrel, and don't lose your temper easily.

Where he is, ask him to read the comments of us enthusiastic netizens. He should also actively correct his mistakes. Leaving his woman behind easily is a kind of cold violence. If you are depressed about each other, you can make it clear: Baobei, we are angry tonight. I think I can't stand it, so I have to leave for a while. Don't worry about me. In fact, if you can express this calmly, girls will usually change their minds. "Baby" is enough to express your tolerance. If a man loves his woman, he should not be like a donkey, jumping around when encountering problems.

Two people can make an agreement. When they are angry, they can not talk to each other for 24 hours. They can think about whether the feeling will still be the same in 3 days. If it is, it will not be too late no matter how uncomfortable it is.

I used to get angry a lot about trivial things, but my BF doesn’t get angry at all. Of course, he also used cold violence on me, but now I can really do it myself. When I feel depressed about something, I will (1) Wonder if you will still be angry after 3 days, or (2) what will be the consequences of a positive attitude? (3) Make a 180-degree turn and think about the problem from his perspective. How can he be happy? (4) Find ways to relieve depression by yourself; (5) Reward yourself for overcoming your own emotions; (6) When you are depressed, try to admit defeat on your own. Or it’s not called giving in. For example, when we go to bed at night and ignore each other, he comes to hug me, and I push him away. Then I remember how much he loves his lover, so I pull his arm away and sleep in his arms. , he also took advantage of the situation to hug me tightly. In this case, he would kiss me very gently 100% of the time. He was angry and stood still, and I was also very angry. After calming down for a while, I went to hug him and refused to allow him to leave. Act coquettishly to him, or pretend to be arrogant, "You are angry, I am more angry than you, but if you want to run away, my aunt will hug you so that you can't breathe and gasp, suffocating you to death!" There are many more, you can do it yourself according to the situation. deal with. In short, don't hurt each other in anger, and you can calm down the war. When you look back, it was no big deal.

If you examine his hatefulness from behind the incident, it will be difficult for you to be happy. When you magnify his kindness to you, think about it, love means giving to make him happy, and everything will be much better. Why do we miss the feeling of first love? Because at that time we were trying our best to make each other happy, instead of thinking about why the other person didn't do things to make me happy.

I have watched "The Legend of the New Lady" many times, and every episode has been watched many times, and I have discovered a secret: that is, both parties are grateful for each other's dedication and efforts for themselves, and encourage each other's good deeds in a timely manner. Appreciate each other very much. So each other will feel happy.

Just imagine, if my BF would look at me very attentively and think I am beautiful, and I would be very tired after get off work and wash a lot of clothes for him, if he could say "Honey, thank you for your hard work" and pull me over for a kiss. Touch my forehead, so that I will be willing to do things for him, but even if I remind him and say, "I'm so tired after washing a lot of clothes, all your clothes have been washed for you!" He actually just said, "Well, You are my wife, so you should serve me." I was very unhappy after hearing this, but I would not quarrel with him, I would reason with him, "I should serve you, where is the rule? It's not like I don't make money, and I don't rely on you. "Fuck, you said that, I just think you are very heartless, I'm trying to catch you! Bad guy!" The two of them had a ball next to the pillow, laughing and joking. If it had been the same before, I would have been very angry and said that I would never do it again. Quit.

But when it comes to the fact that he doesn’t wash a lot of clothes and is very tired from work, can you not wash them for him? When two people are together, they need to take care of and support each other. They only think about how to treat him well and don't ask for anything in return. On the contrary, they really take a step back and the world is brighter.

As long as you love each other and are willing to change, there is no habit that cannot be cultivated. Don't say it's difficult. I want you to kiss your wife every morning before you leave. Isn't it difficult for your husband to welcome you and give her a hug when he comes home? My BF and I have been in a relationship for 8 years, and we started living together in March this year. In the past, we lived separately in two places. Every morning before I leave, even if I am in a hurry, he will come over to me, and he will reach out and pull me in for a kiss before leaving. He may kiss my arm or forehead. If there is enough time, he will play a little more. This detail in the morning is The most heartwarming.

As long as you put your mind to it, nothing will change. Every time you successfully overcome your weaknesses, celebrate or reward them in other ways. This will magnify your efforts and you will succeed step by step.

For boys, usually "sincerity leads to gold and stone" is definitely not wrong, especially since GF is a reasonable type.

Don’t break up. Listen to my sister, you all have the same problems. If you break up, you will regret it in the future. Don't waste your sister's efforts in vain.

Although we used to be unable to get married because of finances, now we are not sure about getting married because we are not getting along well. But now we have adjusted a lot and I am confident that we can get married next year. I don’t know if you have watched the movie Confucius. When Confucius failed and left alone, his disciple Yan Hui reminded him of the famous saying he said in the past: "When we can't change the world or change others, our only way is to change." "Myself", this sentence made me cry sadly. I feel that when I get along with my boyfriend, if he doesn't do the things I want him to do, then the only way for us to get along harmoniously is that I have to change myself. For example, his indifference, for example, he has no savings in the years after graduating from college, for example, his sexual function is very poor, he does not have the passion that he should have, and I do not have the happiness of a woman that I should enjoy. Who can I blame? I can only resent myself for loving him and still being unable to leave him even after we broke up, so we reconciled again. Do we still have to linger at the same level as in the past? I feel that I am really moving towards being "virtuous" in my thoughts and actions, seeing his advantages clearly, supporting and encouraging him, and persuading myself to love him according to my own heart, without caring about the evaluation of the outside world and the opinions of some people. around.

Every time I see some news about a third party in divorce, I feel sad. I think about whether I have gone through such a difficult time with him now, and whether there will be any mishaps in the future. However, I persuade myself, like People say that you are afraid of a car accident so you don't cross the road?

There are many people in worse situations than you.

It would be much better if you could look at everything like a great wise man, see the results clearly and deal with the problem. I also know that my BF likes virtuous and gentle women, but it is difficult to do so, but I am already trying my best to do it.

Test yourself tonight, can you analyze it carefully, have a happy dinner together, and have a sweet EVENING of emotional advancement in the evening? Come on, I believe you can do it.

Bless you all.