Official dinners have different themes and rules.
Ordinary units eat internally (farewell in the wind, entertain members, eat overtime), and external units participate (entertain superiors, subordinates and others).
In short, there must be a host and a hostess at the table. Of course, people who are new to officialdom can't become gods.
Even if you invite others to dinner, you are entertaining subordinates and the leaders are present. It's important to prioritize.
Eating has a purpose, basically around the leadership. What Xiao Bai needs to do is to play his role and accompany him to eat, drink and chat. Don't steal the camera.
2. Seating problem
In the official dinner, the main seat is the big leader, and other employees will choose a good seat according to their status and weight.
Generally speaking, someone will take the initiative to arrange seats for dinner. Of course, some people will be modest, but at this time Xiao Bai must be clear. Find your own position, generally opposite the leader, near the door of serving food.
If you are not sure, you can observe that the people who go with the unit are similar to their own status and sit in a row with themselves. Remember, if the leader doesn't sit, neither will you. On the seat issue, we should look down on ourselves, not value them, so as not to leave a bad impression of arrogance.
Step 3 drink and chat
The theme of dinner is eating and drinking. Without wine, there is no feast.
Usually, dinner organizers will consider drinking, and it will be better if the number of participants is even, which is convenient for one-on-one drinking.
If you are a girl, don't drink easily. If you are a non-drinker, you can't stop drinking again and again. Don't get drunk and don't drink water as wine.