Xu Hui and her husband met on a blind date, and their family conditions were very general. Although Xu Hui has a stable job, his income is not high. On the one hand, I finally chose a man with similar conditions to marry him because my conditions met a bottleneck.
Their marriage is very simple, no room, no bride price, no car. They just had a wedding. After marriage, I lived with my in-laws. The house is two rooms, just enough for them to live in. Xu Hui also has a sister-in-law, but she works outside all the year round and seldom goes home. Occasionally, when she comes back for the New Year, she shares a room with Xu Hui, and her husband sleeps on the sofa in the living room.
Although the house is small, Xu Hui and her mother-in-law are tolerant and understand each other, and life is OK. Moreover, she and her husband are also working hard to buy a house of their own in the future.
Later, after her sister-in-law married to a foreign country, she came back less often than before. My mother-in-law often talks about her daughter at home and sometimes secretly wipes her tears. Xu Hui will also persuade her mother-in-law not to be too sad, as long as her sister-in-law is happy at her husband's house.
But once my sister-in-law suddenly called back and said that she would take her husband and children back to her mother's house for a while, which made her in-laws happy and worried. She was glad to finally meet her daughter, but worried that they would have no place to live when they came back.
Xu Hui's husband said that when the time comes, he will go to the hotel to get a room, and let the third sister-in-law stay in the hotel, or they will stay at home and Xu Hui will stay in the hotel. My mother-in-law immediately refused to say no. Staying in a hotel for hundreds of days is a waste of money.
Then Xu Hui's husband said that he and his brother-in-law would sleep on the sofa in the living room, and Xu Hui and her sister-in-law would take the children to sleep in the bedroom. At this time, the mother-in-law was very angry and said, "Your brother-in-law only comes to our house once every few years. Are you embarrassed to let others sleep on the sofa in the living room? You are a big man, you are in your thirties, you can't even afford a house, and a family of three still lives at home. "
Listening to her mother-in-law, she doesn't seem to be angry at once. She must be dissatisfied with her husband and wife in the early days. Said his son blushed. After getting married, I followed my parents into this small home. Xu Hui and his wife are sometimes embarrassed, but no one says they don't feel anything. This is what my mother-in-law said. It was not only her husband's face, but also Xu Hui's embarrassment.
At that time, her husband was very angry and didn't go out to eat at night. Xu Hui became a peacemaker between her husband and her mother-in-law, saying that her husband would apologize to her mother-in-law and put in a good word. There is no night feud between mother and son. Xu Hui's husband is honest. After being persuaded by his wife, he also felt that he should not have an argument with his mother.
However, her mother-in-law was resolute and passed on her resentment to her daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law said that Xu Hui was blamed for living in her husband's house after marriage, eating and drinking from them, and earning that little money every month. Xu Hui usually gives her family living expenses, but her mother-in-law always finds it too little to get more. She really can't.
Being told by her mother-in-law, she also felt wronged. It was supposed to be between them. How did she think of this? Besides, she didn't enjoy happiness after marriage. She also takes care of the children and works every day. Although she doesn't earn much, they are all frugal.
The husband and wife are saving money to buy a house, and they are not willing to spend a penny. And Xu Hui and her mother-in-law usually get along well. I don't know why my mother-in-law lost her temper. If you think about Xu Hui carefully, you will understand that her mother-in-law is at odds with her face and heart.
Although my mother-in-law said a few words to her, she felt uncomfortable, but she didn't put it there either. She just smiled. The mother-in-law added, "The daughter-in-law and sister-in-law are going back to their parents' house for a while. You should rent a house outside. It's inconvenient for them to come back. "
Xu Hui listened to her mother-in-law's last words, and she understood that her mother-in-law deliberately wanted to drive them out. Xu Hui thinks that although they live with their in-laws, she doesn't cook or do housework at home. Basically, as long as her mother-in-law is at home, she doesn't have to worry about anything. In addition to living in her in-laws' house, she asked herself to be as filial to her in-laws as her biological parents.
She said to her mother-in-law: "Although we don't have a house now, what you said is unreasonable, but it doesn't matter. Our family of three moved out. They are all children. As long as you are grateful, we have no opinion. "
Because my sister-in-law is married far away, my mother-in-law always feels that she has never helped her daughter, and her son and daughter-in-law seem to have taken advantage of her, so her mother-in-law always loves her daughter too much.
Later, Xu Hui and her husband took their children back to their parents' home for a few days. During this period, they found a house and moved to a rented house. When her sister-in-law came back, her mother-in-law told them to go back. Xu Hui and her husband don't want to go back, but it's not appropriate to think about not going back.
When I went back, I saw my mother-in-law like having grandchildren very much. When they saw the fruits in the hands of Mr. and Mrs. Xu Hui, they lost their temper and said, "Be your brother and sister-in-law, buy some fruits to meet your sister, put them down and buy something else. Come back and buy some toys for my grandson. "
Xu Hui and her husband went out to buy a bunch of things again, and all the new toys were taken out. Xu Hui's son robbed her sister-in-law's son, and her mother-in-law slapped her grandson. At that time, Xu Hui wanted to leave with her children, but she finally put up with it.
After dinner, my sister-in-law said to wash the dishes, and my mother-in-law pressed her daughter's hand and said, we don't have your work at home, so just play with the children. With the whole family gone, Xu Hui went to the kitchen to wash the dishes alone.
After returning in the evening, she told her husband that she would never go to her mother-in-law's house again. Although the husband is honest, he also knows that the mother is obviously eccentric. He obeyed his wife's decision. The next day, her mother-in-law told them to go shopping and send them there. Xu Hui's husband said that they had to work overtime and had no time to go.
Later, my mother-in-law called again, but they simply didn't answer. My sister-in-law didn't know when she left, and my mother-in-law didn't say she wanted them to go back to live. Xu Hui said that her mother-in-law just didn't want them to live at home, so she kicked them out on the pretext that her sister-in-law had come back. No longer dependent on others, the life of a family of three is very interesting.
Although marriage is not just a matter for two people, life is still a matter between husband and wife; The attitude of the family is neither important nor important. What's important is that the whole family can live in harmony only if they treat themselves well. What is not important is that as long as the husband and wife understand each other and manage the marriage well, the attitude of the family will naturally become less important.
The relationship between people needs sincerity, and what parents need to do is to balance their children. I hope every family can live in harmony sincerely, and parents can share the happiness in everyone's family with their children's small families.