I feel that I will not have the courage to choose to marry far away, because many people around me who have married far away have regretted it. Let me first talk about the problems that people who marry far away will encounter:
1. It is definitely impossible to go home often when marrying far away.
Before marriage, you may have thought that transportation is convenient now and you can go home if you want, but later you will find that due to time constraints and various reasons, you cannot go back several times a year.
2. You will definitely feel a little uncomfortable at first because there are big differences between some regions.
Take my friend as an example. My friend went to live in Chengdu from Jingzhou, Hubei. In fact, in terms of taste, the food in Chengdu is a bit more spicy and spicy than ours, so it takes some getting used to. And they speak a lot of Sichuan dialect here, which was hard to understand at first, and you need to get used to it slowly.
3. You will feel lonely. Generally, girls who marry far away have just married and have few friends and family except colleagues at work.
Take my friend as an example. When I first went there, I basically stayed with my husband. Later, I started to have friends, but it was definitely hard to find someone I could relate to.
4. When you quarrel, you will feel helpless and have nowhere to go.
Take my friend as an example. My friend and her husband have a good relationship, but before they had a fight, they were not sensible at first. When they had a fight, they wanted to run away from home and couldn't hold them back. , I also want to buy a ticket to go back to my parents’ home, but it’s not that easy, it’s too far.