When a young man is confused because he has no special skills, mastering a skill is the best way to solve the problem.
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A 14-year-old dropout in the north works. Due to the limitation of age and education (he didn't graduate from junior high school), he can only work in the assembly line of an electronics factory in a coastal city in the south. He works overtime and stays up late every day until he feels nothing and doesn't want to live. By the end of the month, he got the meager salary. From one electronics factory to another, from manual labor to manual labor, the deep sense of powerlessness makes people feel extremely helpless and afraid.
Three years later, I came to a second-tier city to engage in sales, which is the so-called door-to-door business. From introverted shyness to talkativeness, it is a painful process. I have changed a lot of jobs in five years, but all of them are sales, because only sales do not require academic qualifications.
By chance, I realized that I shouldn't go with the flow any more. As a result, I packed up my feelings of complaining about others and applied for a self-taught undergraduate course. Although this process is difficult to adhere to, it is particularly embarrassing to go to school while working.
However, in order to kill him and not eat what he had suffered before, he gritted his teeth and endured it. Four years later, I successfully got the graduation certificate of the self-taught undergraduate examination. On the day I got my diploma, all kinds of emotions came to my mind. I cried on the roadside. I don't know how long I cried, but I walked home silently. If you see that figure, you must be very lonely.
Now I am working as a real estate consultant in second-tier cities, that is, real estate sales, while preparing for the judicial examination, with the goal of legal profession.
In fact, you don't have a skill or a good background, but you must not be enterprising. You may not know what you want, but you must know what you don't want.
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A year ago, when I had nothing, the executive chef of the hotel said to me, you are so unreliable. What about Wu Da?
A year later, when I made thousands of cakes, it was also a five-star hotel. I can go directly to the kitchen to make a dessert without mentioning my love, no matter how gorgeous it is. The chef went to see my bachelor's degree again and said, oh, yes, both civil and military.
You know, when I heard these four words at once, I was so excited that I was about to cry on the spot. I walked alone for a long time for this moment. Just going shopping and eating every French dessert shop will make you gain ten pounds alive and fall down. )
When I can only be counted as a three-legged cat kung fu and a baking amateur at best, the only thing I can get is sincerity. I can only tell the chef over and over again that I just like making desserts. This is my dream. Did you succeed? You got it? Why don't you turn to the chair and choose me?
I was really moved by myself. More dreamy than a Chinese dream show.
When you have nothing, even if you have a degree, in the eyes of others, you are worse than people without a degree.
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How to find a job in America without any special skills? In other words, in the early summer of 20 16, after a policeman and his chicken out in fishing law enforcement, I bought a plane ticket and fled to Silicon Valley in the United States, holding back the alarm.
Although the summer in California is sunny, the temperature is not high and it is cool in the morning and evening. You don't need to turn on the air conditioner when you sleep. This is a summer resort and I plan to stay there for one and a half months.
In a few days, I will be tired of watching the blue sky, white clouds, flowers and green fields. I want to do something. After all, my modes of travel have always been diverse.
I started looking for a job.
20 13 I traveled to the eastern United States for the first time, and I especially liked new york. At that time, I thought, is it possible to work in new york? I just thought about it. 20 14 I worked in America and Spain for several months, but I came from work and never really tried to find a job.
This time, I will try to find a job. My goal is to find a job, not to actually work there. I have no work permit. I don't need a work visa. I will return to China on time.
Although it happened in the United States, the steps, methods, courage and positive attitude of finding a job should still have certain reference value.
I have both academic qualifications and professional titles in China, but when I came to the United States, I became a "brainless" person, and my major was useless.
When you have nothing, your education and your sincerity are nothing in the eyes of others.
It's too easy to talk about dreams and sing about feelings these days. Zero cost, just like saying dear I love you in love, has a shining sense of cheapness.
Man is an animal with strong subjective initiative, has his own thoughts and will act according to them. He will think that he won't, and then take the initiative to learn. As the old saying goes, a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and no one is born with everything. All skills are learned from scratch, and then gradually accumulated.
Finally, that's all I want to say. Friends who are interested in career planning can pay attention to the "career research conference" and more exciting things are waiting for you to share ~