Lee Hung and Zhao Qing are both born in 1980s. They have been married for 7 years and their son is 6 years old. The seven-year itch has been bothering the couple who have no passion for marriage. However, without passion, life still has to be lived. Because neither of them can bear the blow of divorce. Because the house was bought under the sponsorship of parents, the children were about to go to school, and neither husband nor wife cheated. No matter who proposes a divorce, the blow to parents and children is unbearable for two people. So, two people make do with life. But two days ago, they went to the cinema to watch "To Youth, We Will Die", and their inner passion was ignited. They felt that they couldn't go on like this, so they went home that night to discuss divorce. Asked why they want to divorce, Zhao Qing said that they feel that their married life is too dull. After watching the movie, both of them had the courage to face life and chose their own new life mode. Seeing the movie divorce, the notary also felt ridiculous, trying to persuade the two not to be impulsive and live a good life. Ding Lun V: After watching "To Youth", the young couple born in 1980s felt that they had no passion for divorce. After watching Pleasant Goat, children imitate the wolf and burn their companions. I think it's only safe to watch News Network. Only for domestic news, of course. Please don't imitate friends who watch foreign news. Some people describe the marriage of post-80s young people as free to come and go, get married faster and leave faster. Perhaps it is because the pace of modern life is too fast and the pressure is too great that people are more willing to pursue the improvement of their quality of life or a perfect happiness index. The reasons for the dullness of marriage are as follows: First, the marriage foundation is not solid, and the combination between the two sides is not based on love. Or because I can't find the right person, I am disheartened and just choose one; Or out of some pressure, in a specific time and environment, marry someone you don't love; Or treat marriage as a transaction and use it to achieve a certain goal. It is not surprising that these types of marriages are mediocre. Second, do not respect each other, do not cherish each other: in real life, if the relationship between husband and wife is dull, and even disputes often occur, it is often because the two sides do not buy each other. Maybe the wife looks down on her husband and complains all day. You see, someone's husband is rich and powerful, and the scenery is infinite. Or husbands don't respect their wives. Look at you. You are fat and lazy. You are a yellow-faced woman. Look at a person. She is beautiful and considerate. That's a woman. If your marriage is trapped in such a strange circle, it will be a miracle that two people can live quietly and make do with not getting divorced. Fourth, both parties get bored in marriage and stop paying attention. If your marriage is based on love, congratulations first, because your foundation is good enough; But you must be vigilant and be diligent in business, so that you can always love and be new. Love is also alive. Only by careful care can we grow normally. If both parties are lazy and just want to take and refuse to give, then you will both be disappointed soon and love will slowly die. Nobel Prize in Literature winner Bernard Shaw said, "At this moment on earth, there are about 20,000 people who are suitable to be your life partner, depending on which one you meet first. Falling in love with someone is not by hard work, but by opportunity, which is God's arrangement, but "continuing to love someone" depends on "hard work". How can I love a person continuously? How can we make marriage not dull? This is definitely not a simple matter, and it requires enough wisdom and hard work. How to make marriage not dull? Make yourself a better person. You are an interesting and passionate person, and marriage cannot be dull. Both sides grow together. The essence of love, it is not just a passion, it should be able to find themselves, constantly improve themselves, and both sides grow together. Otherwise, your love will lack motivation and vitality, and of course, she will feel that marriage life is dull. Making dating a habit is not something that can only be done during love. If married couples want to stay in love, they should also spend time dating, such as watching movies, eating candlelight dinners and going for a walk in the park ... Every time they go out hand in hand, they can always get different feelings. Marriage can't be maintained only by family ties. A marriage without passion is like a stagnant pool, seemingly calm, but in fact it is difficult to resist any temptation. Therefore, couples should date frequently to enrich their ordinary lives. Do something special for him. Men, like children, need constant coaxing. Besides, men are greedy. They want a good wife at home, and their wife is sexy and sultry. If you want to arouse the passion and romance of the past, women have to put some thought into it. First of all, be a real wife, throw away all the old pajamas or use them directly as rags, buy several sets of silky pajamas with smooth feel and add sexy underwear inside, which will not only fascinate him, but also make you feel more and more. If a man likes some special snacks, he might as well buy some for him on his way home. Men like to watch games, so it is better to buy tickets for them with their hard-earned money. These "little moves" will make men very moved. Men's stomachs are also greedy. In order to rekindle the passion after marriage, we might as well make him a big meal in the name of love. We can buy raw materials, discuss recipes and cook together. These little details will make you love each other more and more. If there are more positive thoughts, women will be easily sentimental, and then develop into a nagging woman. I believe that few men are willing to listen to their wives' nagging. In fact, there are not many things worth complaining about in life, and a positive attitude is the key to a happy marriage. Therefore, from now on, we should be less nagging, more positive thinking, find something we appreciate in our lover, and give proper praise to make our marriage run vividly. "Love is beautiful, but marriage belongs to the Holy Spirit." Reston wrote in his praise: "A happy marriage is the beginning of a new life, which is the starting point of happiness and happiness." Whether a marriage is happy or not depends on the careful management and care of both parties. Therefore, in the post-infatuation era, in the years when passion disappears, if you want to satisfy each other's desire to be loved, you must have the real ability to love.