Get along with her for a long time, you will naturally find her shortcomings. No one is perfect. Pay more attention to her advantages, consciously say something to persuade her to correct her shortcomings, and communicate more. In fact, it doesn't matter how a person's personality is. The important thing is that she is sincere to you, which is enough. Continue to love her, everyone will change after a long time. If she broke up just because she didn't want to be gentle and pure, why did she choose to be together? Love a person not with imagination, but with heart. I think you should seriously consider whether you should continue to go with this girlfriend. From a girl's point of view, if a girl likes a person, she will do anything for him, honor her parents, keep good relations with friends around her, consider her boyfriend, properly handle her previous emotional problems and be a virtuous girl. As for your girlfriend, I don't think being with you is serious. If one day she meets someone she likes again, she will definitely leave you. Or you can talk to her and see what she thinks.