Because of the bad influence, others think that you and your wife are not harmonious. In the countryside, we often hear some words said by the old people, but we didn't care when we listened. When we encounter this incident, we often regret not listening to the old people. Old sayings in rural areas are often summed up by the older generation through their own life experience, which has a great influence on rural life in later generations. Up to now, although not everyone still applies, good places can still be adopted. Do you know what an old saying in rural areas means, "My parents are not old, and my relatives don't have enough to eat"? Why can't my mother's family live permanently? Are relatives full?

Maybe it's because my parents are too close that I say this. As we all know, in the past, rural areas were "patriarchal", and parents also had more children to support the elderly. When a woman gets married, it is "the water thrown out by the married daughter." When a woman reaches a certain age, she needs to get married, so there is a saying that she won't stay at her parents' house for long. Moreover, if she is not married when she is old, her family will be very anxious and will always talk about you, introduce you to blind date and so on.

Under normal circumstances, after marriage, I live with my husband and mother-in-law. And the countryside is relatively small. If the woman has not been married for a long time, she will also be discussed by the villagers, leading to more contradictions. If the married daughter lives in her family for a long time, even if she is not guessed by the villagers, it will easily affect the relationship between her sister-in-law and her daughter-in-law. From ancient times to the present, the problem of getting along with the sister-in-law and others is confined to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which will easily lead to the loss of face of the husband-in-law and his family.

If you often go back to your parents' home after marriage, you will be gossiped by others. So you can't stay long. I believe everyone has this experience. We go to live or eat with relatives, but we often don't stay there for long. If we are going back for a long time, we will buy some gifts or expenses for our relatives to see. Why are we doing this? Once in a while, eating at relatives' home is very welcome, but you often have nothing to say, which will definitely be rejected, which not only causes some trouble to relatives, but also increases a lot of expenses. Relatives have no obligation to help you, just for the sake of both families. Therefore, this sentence "relatives don't have enough to eat" is to warn everyone that relying on others is only temporary, and everything must be done on their own for a long time.