Children born after a daughter's marriage bear her husband's surname. Many places say that daughters are outsiders and grandchildren are outsiders. This concept makes many parents finally leave all their savings to their sons, thinking that their sons can carry on the family line.
I admit that many parents really love their daughters, and they are really sincere. However, at the end of their lives, they can never cross the traditional concept of carrying on the family line. They always stick to the rules and think that it is a complete life.
Of course, many parents just say that their sons and daughters are all the same, but they have completely betrayed themselves. Therefore, there will be many people in society who desperately squeeze their daughters and deprive them of the right to study, just to hand over all their studies to their sons. Even, many girls have to give all their savings to their younger brothers or older brothers to marry their daughters after work.
Most of these parents regard their daughters as tools and cash machines to help them raise their sons. In reality, there are really many fans, Mei Sheng and Su Mingyu. Their lives are full of troubles and make people cry.
I was born in the countryside, and a sister I know is like this. My parents wouldn't let her study until she graduated from primary school. She helps people sell vegetables on a village menu and subsidizes their families. Later, she wanted to learn a trade, beauty salon. Her parents didn't help her pay her tuition, but she had no choice but to help with housework in the village.
/kloc-when I was 0/8 years old, I finally went out to look for a job, and I had to pay my parents every month because I had to pay for her brother's college education. Finally found a boyfriend and got married. She said: "My daughter is an outsider in the eyes of my parents after all."
A few years ago, her father left her nothing but her brother and sister-in-law, which was expected, but it made people feel very chilling.