Feelings are always tepid, and external environment and internal psychological factors affect people's emotional changes to some extent. If the relationship between newlyweds is compared to a cup full of water, the water in the cup may start to decrease and dry up as the couple quarrel constantly after marriage. The survey shows that boredom, cold war and quarrels are the biggest killers of heterosexual relationships. Boredom will reduce the attraction of two people, the cold war will increase the contradiction between the two sides, and quarreling will increase the boredom of two people.

So is human nature. In the face of much gentleness, once you get used to it, it will be tasteless. He will take everything you do for granted and take it for granted. Don't continue to get along with him at this time Find an excuse (such as going on a business trip for two months) and leave his life decisively. Soon he will understand how different life would be without you. Every time we talk about "communication", communication is so important because it can increase trust. We should understand that trust is the best foundation of a relationship.

When you encounter obstacles that you feel you can't overcome in your relationship, don't complain or even give up. Don't let a bad mood become a tool for quarreling again. Both sides need to calm down and start a purposeful dialogue. If one day, the relationship is affected by some uncertain factors, or is experiencing a difficult bottleneck period, then these three psychological methods can help the relationship warm up rapidly. Cultivate a common hobby? The best way to quickly warm up feelings is to actively cultivate common interests and hobbies.

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