Whether it is feasible to eat alone with friends of the opposite sex after marriage cannot be generalized. First of all, let's see when and why we had dinner together, and whether we had dinner together or not. Now that you are married, many rules and bottom lines within marriage should be well observed, especially the distance from the opposite sex.

You can have friends of the opposite sex after marriage, as long as you have a good proper limit with friends of the opposite sex. Never let your intimate relationship with the opposite sex affect your relationship.

1, try to avoid being alone.

No matter how good the relationship is, don't get along alone unless you have to. You can imagine a narrow space and ambiguous air. People are more or less fond of each other, and it is inevitable that men and women will live in the same room for a long time. Impulse is easy to make mistakes, which is not good for their marriage. If you spend more time with friends of the opposite sex than yourself and your partner, you will be more likely to want something to happen, so keep a safe distance, be responsible for yourself and your marriage.

2. Don't complain in front of each other.

Even if you are not satisfied with your husband, don't complain in front of colleagues of the opposite sex. This article is mainly aimed at women. Women have quarreled with their husbands at home and like to talk to someone. If you talk about your husband's opinions at work or complain in front of colleagues of the opposite sex, male colleagues are very good at it. Every word of the speaker collides in your heart, making you feel that you have found a bosom friend. If this situation continues, it is difficult to guarantee that nothing will happen.

3. Two people can joke, but don't go too far.

A lot of times it's not good to joke once in a while. It can enliven the atmosphere and bring us closer, but between friends of the opposite sex, we must remember to grasp the scale of joking and say what we can. After a long time, it is easy to have ambiguous feelings. Many extramarital affairs begin with ambiguity, so it is easy to have an accident, especially women should know how to be reserved. Never joke about things you shouldn't take, let alone give them to people with ulterior motives.

4. Don't have physical contact.

This paragraph is for women to resolutely refuse. When you are close to a male colleague, a man may touch your hand and put it on your shoulder for such intimate physical contact when he feels that there is an opportunity. If it's the first time he has such physical contact, you should seriously refuse it, so that he won't do it again. If he refuses for the first time, the man will push his luck.