Weddings and funerals in rural areas are all major events, and all need the help of neighbors. But compared with marriage, wedding and funeral, it will be more helpful if things are white, and people don't know about things. Everyone comes to help consciously, but the wedding leave is different. It is necessary to inform the neighbors. You can come and sit at the table if you have a good relationship. But those who are a little farther away don't know, and white things come from the metropolis. There is a big difference between the two, and there is a reason.

Every place has its own funeral customs. Here, after the old man dies, white paper will be posted on the door. Neighbors pass by and know who has left when they see it. The news will come soon, and someone will know in the middle of the night. For example, when some old people died at night, their families began to cry. On a quiet night in the countryside, this kind of voice is easy to spread, and neighbors don't have to look to know who has left. You don't have to call in the morning, just go to condolence and help. In the countryside, as long as you do something for nothing, almost all the neighbors in the family will come to have a look and express their condolences, and many will stay and help. Why is it obviously more helpful to make white things than red ones?

In the past, there were three characters written on the funeral tent: the old man died, and the filial son and grandson began to pay attention to filial piety, especially the son had nothing to do and was unable to participate in all the affairs at home. The mission of the filial piety club is to be filial and awake. Even if the home is busy, you don't have to worry. Someone in the village specializes in this matter. The filial son and grandson can't work, which virtually increases the number of people who help. Moreover, there are more people who need white things than people who need red things, especially on the day of funeral, all kinds of people who help wash vegetables, cook, carry paper, shoot guns, scatter paper money and carry coffins don't need to be in charge on May Day.

In fact, many places should pay attention to white things. In rural areas, the more people do white things, the more prosperous the family appears. In the past, the more people wore mourning clothes, the more prosperous people were, so sworn brothers were very popular in rural areas. Now this trend still exists. Children wear the same mourning clothes as dutiful sons. The more people who do things, the more they feel that this thing is done with style. It is also said that the more people do white things, the more people do things. With the decrease of family population, there used to be fewer and fewer families with five or six brothers, and some were only children. Therefore, it is not many people, but the dead are the biggest, and everyone will come to see me off consciously. This is also an excellent tradition in our countryside.

Wedding ceremonies are different. Although the wedding looks very lively, it is actually arranged in advance. Just follow the script, you don't need much help. Especially now, going to restaurants is still very popular. Even those who don't go to the restaurant have a service team, which further reduces the number of people who help. Some people leave after the ceremony, while others simply don't come. Just find someone to bring a gift. Is it more helpful to do white things in your rural hometown than red things? Welcome to add comments and messages.