First, calm down.
Some people will choose to hit others directly when looking for a third party, no matter whether they can hit each other in the end, even if they can. Once this kind of thing is exposed by others, it will not only make itself the object of discussion by others, but also cause great damage to its image and even make others look down on itself.
So, what we have to do at this time is to calm down, try to understand the truth of the matter and find out whether such a thing really happened.
Second, learn to analyze.
When you are sure that your husband is really sorry for himself, in addition to anger, you should calmly think and analyze the reason why the other party cheated, whether he didn't give him what he wanted or his own problems.
2 If it is your own problem, you should reflect and improve. If your husband still has your place in his heart, he will come back naturally when you improve yourself.
Third, think twice before you act.
If you find that the reason for your husband's infidelity is not his own problem, but his own, then you should make an appropriate decision at this time, either choose to divorce directly or continue to forgive, because you still can't let go of each other.
However, it should be noted that you must forgive each other only if they promise that it won't happen again. If this happens again, don't hesitate to divorce directly, and pay attention to your strong gas field when doing these things.
Fourth, don't be soft-hearted.
If you give the other person countless opportunities, you still find that he hurts himself again and again, and even makes himself scarred. Then, at this time, you should not be soft-hearted and give him a chance, but leave decisively and resolutely, and you can't continue to drag on.
Otherwise, you will be hurt more seriously because of your carelessness, and even hurt your family and children because of your indecision. So, you have to get yourself out of this situation.
In addition, as a woman, we should learn to be flexible when managing marriage. You can't put all your thoughts on your family. You should learn to love yourself while loving your family, children and husband. Only in this way can you make your marriage easier.