1, always have an appreciation attitude towards children.

Appreciation is not unrealistic praise and encouragement, but a kind of silent support from the heart, a kind of tacit power. Parents of excellent children have an inexhaustible appreciation for their children from beginning to end.

2, strong principles, will not easily change their views because of people and things.

Parents clearly know what their children should and should not do, and make rules. Respect parents, don't lie, be honest, and offenders will never be soft. This is the bottom line of being a man.

3. Be good at running your own family.

A good family atmosphere is the foundation of children's growth. The atmosphere is harmonious and warm, and there are few disputes between parents. In such a family, children can feel warmth.

Mothers usually play an important role in the family. Instead of wearing expensive clothes and using expensive things, the key is to dress up children and adults.

4. Reasonable, steady, simple and low-key.

Parents are very reasonable and considerate. Views on problems are often very eclectic, not extreme and stubborn, with steady manners and elegant speech, which will not give people the feeling of arrogance, and rarely boast about their family and income in front of others.

5. Care but never spoil children.

I care about my children very much, but I can categorically reject their unreasonable troubles, never regret or tolerate their mistakes.

6. Parents cooperate tacitly

On the issue of educating children, there is a tacit understanding from afar. A good COP must be a bad COP. Parents should not undermine each other and blame each other.

7. Work hard and seek truth from facts

Parents' attitudes towards life and work will exert a subtle influence on their children. Excellent parents are not only successful in educating their children, but also conscientious and conscientious in their work.

8. Pay regular attention to children's learning.

Every day, I will spend a certain amount of time paying attention to my children, and I can fix it regularly. Have time to study with your child, even if you don't study, you will stay with your child. I have my own desk at home, so I can't do my homework and study for a while every day. Parents will turn down their voices or turn off the TV in order not to affect their children's study.

9. Don't entertain too much online. Sometimes, children love to play games, which is influenced by their parents.

10, pay attention to children's diet health

Pay great attention to children's diet health, make reasonable and healthy diet recipes for children, and know what additives are and what is not good for children's health.

1 1, not complaining.

Parents have their own opinions, rarely complain about anything, can understand others, and maintain a healthy and upward attitude, which can naturally drive children to be positive.

12, strict with children

Strictly speaking, it is not about beating and cursing, but about controlling children's behaviors and habits. "Diligence without pleasure" is the unchanging creed of educating children.

13, get to know the children, and don't expect too much of them.

Objectively evaluate children, don't give too high expectations, don't be pessimistic, and set goals according to their actual abilities. The focus of efforts is the process, not the result.

14, make friends with children and listen to their voices.

These parents respect their children very much, and they will listen to their voices. Even if what children say is trivial, it is an important part of their lives. Children will feel valued and will be more willing to communicate with their parents.