Generally speaking, there are several situations after a boy breaks up.
The first one: it has been planned for a long time. In this case, he won't feel any sadness at all, but will be extremely happy. Such men don't have to think about what they think. I wish you a free growth.
The second type: actually, I am very serious when I am in love, and I am not very willing when I break up.
In this case, we can divide the psychology of boys after breaking up into several stages.
The first stage: comfort zone
At the moment of breaking up, you must be flustered or thoughtful. But in any case, boys will have a good time when they say goodbye angrily or give up after thinking hard. In the end, I was left alone. I'm free. I was liberated. I can play games, dance and drink all night with my gay friends happily.
This stage basically lasts for one week to one month.
Therefore, girls are forbidden to contact, make phone calls, send text messages and meet at this time. Come and let me see you cry when I am so happy. It's impossible to get back together At this time, girls, I know you are sad. Why should he be happy and you be sad? So it is better to turn grief into strength to lose weight, study, exercise or buy it at buy buy. Start (a disease)
The second stage: the transitional period
The moment when people stop after joy and passion is empty. After playing enough, they will miss you who used to be caring and attentive, and they will really know that they are lovelorn. At this time, you have actually passed the sad period of lovelorn love and started to enjoy the beauty and happiness of life.
Girl, make a new friend of the opposite sex, bask in the online celebrity shop that recently punched in, and po out the latest research recipes. When he finds that you once belonged to him are completely lost, believe me, he will be very sad.
People have strange memories. Obviously, they didn't do anything deliberately, but inadvertently they will automatically think of the beauty that happened here. Your boyfriend remembers the things you went abroad in this store, and all the stray cats you met last time can be remembered by the roadside. Ktv can't help singing the song you ordered before.
The third stage: the commotion period
Its implementation stage is easy to understand. It's hard for people to accept that the person who just broke up doesn't belong to them at all. Men have a desire to conquer, and most boys are still male chauvinism in their bones. In the first half of his life, after Chen cheated and even got married, he still had to stand up and protect his ex-wife when someone harassed him. I already know the sadness after losing you, and I think of your goodness from time to time. Compared with this woman, I may have some advantages, so I can let it go when I get used to it. However, men will always be frustrated. At the moment of breaking up, leaving you solved his pain at that time, but after breaking up, he felt completely lonely and the pain came again.
At this time, he will hesitate to save you, or he may be considering whether to really give up on you. At this moment, all you have to do is let him rekindle his desire to pursue you.
The above is a man's mental journey after breaking up. Of course, there is another kind that is actually very uncomfortable after breaking up, but you don't feel it. In this case, what you have to do is actually similar to the previous three points. Remember to be yourself.