Since life and death are inevitable problems, we should follow the customs left by our ancestors. We must give up anything we want. Every nation is different and has different customs and taboos. At country funerals, try to avoid bright colors, especially dishes like red. Dishes with scarlet letters and strings are taboo, and no dishes with scarlet letters can be served, such as stewed lion's head, braised pork and lettuce.

With the development of society, people in many cities have gradually adopted western funeral methods, while in the vast rural areas, many people still use traditional funeral methods. Although burial is forbidden in some rural areas, in the eyes of the older generation, many people prefer to use traditional funeral methods. Traditional funerals need an "active" process, and time is changing.

According to normal emotions, if someone dies, it should be a very sad thing, but there is a saying in rural areas that as long as the old man dies at a certain age, it can be called "funeral". Many people are not sad but happy, and will invite some people who can play and sing to perform. But I don't know when some women will be invited to perform dances at some rural funerals. This is a common phenomenon in rural "funerals", but the content of the performances may contain some obscene and vulgar dances.

In life, people often say that "old people will die of old age." In fact, people are also very concerned about the death of the elderly. When the old man is dying, all the younger generation will stay with him until he dies. This is called "death". It is the custom in some places that old people can't die in bed, but they will be carried to the floor at the last minute. Note that the old man must not cry before he dies, but can cry aloud after he dies.