Someone once asked me, "Your parents have caused you irreparable harm for a lifetime. Will you forgive them?"

I didn't answer this question, but gave it to Sister Wang, because almost all her misfortunes in this life were caused by her mother, so she is the most qualified to answer this question.

Sister Wang replied, "She won't forgive her mother, because she doesn't owe her anything now, so she will remember her mother's injury all her life."

Sister Wang said: "No revenge is her greatest tolerance for her mother." .

Sister Wang said that she was born in a patriarchal family. Her parents loved her younger brother and her father was weak. No matter whether her mother is violent or not, as long as she is unhappy, she will take it out on her, because in her mother's eyes, she will always be a loser, so for Sister Wang, childhood is only hurt and pain.

When I was a child, Sister Wang got excellent grades, but just after finishing junior high school, she was thrown to the health school by her mother to study, saying that she would come out early to earn money, and then earn money to study for her brother, buy a house and marry a wife, so as to prove that she is not a loss-making goods.

Sister Wang said that her mother told her from an early age that her younger brother was the only blood in the family. She should protect him well, be good to him and provide him with delicious food. Her mission is to fulfill her brother all her life.

After graduating from the health school, Sister Wang was assigned to a small hospital in the county, where she talked about a boyfriend. That man is very kind to Sister Wang, which makes Sister Wang feel that no one has ever cared about or loved her. At that time, Sister Wang thought that her luck had changed and she would be so happy.

But I don't know, just because the man's family is average and he can't come up with 250 thousand bride price, his mother forced him to beat Yuanyang. At that time, her mother hid her registered permanent residence and ID card and kept her at home.

In fact, at that time, Sister Wang knew that her mother was only doing this to sell her money, and then bought a house for her brother and his wife in the county. At that time, my brother was only 14 years old and was still in junior high school.

A year later, my mother found a man ten years older than Wang Jie. She was divorced once and had no children. Sister Wang doesn't like it very much, but he is willing to pay 300 thousand bride price, so Sister Wang still has no choice but to marry this man. But later, the man divorced Sister Wang on the grounds that no man could stand her. "

After the divorce, Sister Wang didn't get any comfort from her parents. She just heard her mother say that she was a fool and couldn't catch such a good family, and then asked Sister Wang to move out at once, saying that their family should not keep losing money. From that moment on, Sister Wang was completely disappointed with this family and moved out.

Perhaps God thought Sister Wang was too unlucky, so in the fourth year after the divorce, Sister Wang met her current husband. This man was divorced once, and he was very kind to Sister Wang and his family was very good, so Sister Wang was finally happy from then on.

At that time, Sister Wang thought that she would never see her mother again in her life. But two years ago, her mother looked for her home and didn't know who to look for.

My mother still didn't say hello when she saw her again. She just ordered Sister Wang to say, "I'm in poor health now, so I'll stay at your house in the future and you will treat me."

Hearing this, Sister Wang paused, not angry, but simply said, "Mom, you are not welcome in my house. Please leave at once. I didn't owe you anything when you sold me. Why should I live in my house? I am no longer your daughter. "

After hearing what Sister Wang said, my mother paused. It seems that she never thought that Sister Wang would talk to her like this, so she reached out and prepared to hit Sister Wang. But at this time, Sister Wang's husband came back and drove her away after knowing that this was Sister Wang's mother. Sister Wang said nothing about this, because she knew that her husband hated her mother very much, because he knew everything about her.

It is also because of this that Sister Wang, the mother, speaks ill of Sister Wang everywhere, saying that Sister Wang is unfilial and ungrateful, but in any case, Sister Wang is indifferent, so she can only return to her hometown in the countryside.

It is because of this unfortunate experience that Sister Wang often warns unmarried girls around her that you should make your own decisions in her life. Filial piety is ok, but you must never fail to understand it, or you will harm yourself for life.

Bian Xiao has something to say:

In fact, I quite agree with Sister Wang's attitude, because injury is injury. Why forgive those people generously?

As Sister Wang said, "No revenge is her greatest tolerance".

Maybe someone will see this and say, Sister Wang should thank her mother. It was because of her mother that she became stronger and met such a good husband.

Actress Angela Zhang once said in the program:

"I won't be grateful to those who have hurt me. If you hurt me, it will hurt me. After all, if you don't hurt me, I will become stronger, because I am not only naturally inspirational, but also naturally strong. "

Yes, why should we be grateful to those who have hurt us? Even if they don't hurt us, we will be stronger, so this is by no means an excuse for them to hurt us or a reason for us to forgive them.

Yun-peng Yue is an excellent crosstalk performer of Deyun Society, and now she is very famous and popular. Looking at his enviable life, you may never think that when he was a waiter in a restaurant, he gave his guests 6 yuan more for beer. Even though he later used his salary to exempt the guests from the bill, he was insulted by the guests at that table for three hours.

Later, after Yun-peng Yue became famous, in a talk show, the host knew the story and asked Yun-peng Yue if he still hated him. Yun-peng Yue replied with tears, I hate him, and I still hate him. I apologized then. Why are you doing this to me, insulting me for six dollars?

Someone once suggested that Yun-peng Yue, you should not hate him, but you should be grateful to him. If he hadn't scolded you, you wouldn't have resigned and met Degang Guo in another restaurant, and you wouldn't have achieved such success. You should be generous.

However, Yun-peng Yue said that even if I attended the Spring Festival Gala, achieved today's achievements and lived a good life, I still hate him and will never forgive him. Why should I forgive him for hurting me?

In my opinion, injury is injury, no matter who he is, he is the perpetrator, and you are the victim anyway. Why forgiving him without revenge is the greatest tolerance.