Some people are particularly unwilling after breaking up, packing all their boyfriends' things and asking the other person to come back and get things. That pile of things is not only the connection between you, but also the most embarrassing interaction in your life because of this move. Some people maliciously destroy their predecessors' things when they are angry. Damage to things, first of all, is a waste, and secondly, it is easier to regret. After all, what is smashed and then burned to ashes cannot be recovered, and those who really want to see the light of day in the future have no chance.
Also, things are given to others when they change hands. The plot of this treatment is not serious, but the bad thing is that if you encounter rebellion, this matter will be known by your predecessor, who will think that you have not paid attention to your past feelings at all, and that it is good that you broke up, which may double your torture. Besides, it's really unfair to give the ex-boyfriend's things as gifts to each other.
No matter what kind of treatment, being able to treat a few items so ceremoniously just proves that you can't let go of each other at all. In fact, there is no so-called correct way to deal with what the predecessor left behind. Sometimes it's easier to give up some useless sense of ceremony. Those are just things with loving memories. Things themselves have no feelings, let alone threats, but they have feelings. They are just lovelorn people.
It doesn't matter if the things left by my predecessor can still be used. Maybe the other party will come back in a hurry to get their own things.
If the things left by the other party are just a bunch of useless domestic garbage, and you want to start a new life, there is no place to put them, then throw them away generously.
In short, you need to forget a person, not dwell on what that person left behind. Feelings say no, no, will you be sad for a long time because of a bunch of things? Not exactly.