With the growth of children's age, children can fully devote themselves to housework, family work and family troubles.

I believe most families are well aware of the necessity of housework division and cooperation.

Let me give you an example. This is a real case that happened to a friend. This example can fully illustrate how necessary it is for children to understand the family situation and participate in family changes.

Before high school, my friend had a good family and was the first local family to live in a villa. My friend's parents do business. She usually lives with her grandmother, who is very tolerant of her. Many things are decided by her, such as deciding the daily menu, dealing with her study, hobbies and making friends independently.

What about her parents? Parents didn't neglect their daughters. She said that her parents didn't come home until she fell asleep every day, but she clearly knew that her mother would kiss her cheek when she slept.

This situation lasted until the summer vacation of the senior high school entrance examination, when parents' business encountered a major crisis, factories closed down, debts were high, villas were sold and they lived in small bungalows far away. Father drags water home on a tricycle every day. She knows all these things. After discussing with her, her parents decided to let her live on campus. When she was sent to school, her father gave her a letter.

The letter said: Daughter, I still remember what you wrote in your previous composition. Our family has three pillars, which support our family. Now is the time to really need your support. You are in charge of your part, and mom and dad are in charge of ours. With the current economic situation of our family, mom and dad can't help you much, so you have to rely on yourself.

My friend said that from then on, she put the letter in her small wallet, dozed off in class, and took it out if she did worse in the exam. From Grade One to Grade Two, she was promoted from the bottom of the middle class to the top 30 of the grade. She ran out to call her father the first time, and his father choked for a long time on the phone. What about now? Now my friends are doing well, and my parents have already weathered the storm.

Necessary suffering can promote children's growth, including ideological and mental maturity.

Therefore, if it is such a child, it is necessary to tell the truth about yourself. Don't take care of children as roses in the greenhouse. As a member of the family, why not let them participate and shoulder their responsibilities?