Some people think that blind date is the gateway to happiness, and some people have a big head when they hear the word blind date, and they advocate free love more.
Many happy marriages begin with blind date, and many people's pain also begins with blind date. Blind date is painful for peace.
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Anning is twenty-nine years old and still has no plans to get married. The last time I fell in love was seven years ago, and I broke up after talking for more than four years. The reason for breaking up is that the man has moved on, and for Anning, her emotional world seems to have collapsed.
She doesn't want to fall in love anymore, and she doesn't want to give her feelings. In addition, her parents' feelings have a great influence on her. To outsiders, her parents are very happy. One is a teacher, and the other is a government cadre, which is a special match. But only she knows that parents often quarrel.
Every time parents quarrel, peaceful mother will go back to grandma's house and cry. She was particularly uncomfortable when she heard that seven aunts and eight aunts spoke about her father. Her father, on the other hand, always seems that he doesn't want to forget it.
Up to now, she still remembers that when she was in junior high school, she carefully eavesdropped on whether her parents had quarreled at the door every time she went home. If there is no quarrel, she will go back safely. The memory of childhood and the betrayal of her ex-boyfriend made her not want to get married.
Seeing that she is twenty-nine, her parents are particularly anxious about her marriage and are looking forward to her getting married and having children. A few years ago, she worked outside, but her parents still couldn't catch her. This year, she went back to her parents and arranged a blind date.
She told her mother that she didn't want a blind date and had her own ideas, so they didn't have to worry. Every time her mother says to her, "What do you think? If you really had an idea, you would have been married. Tell me how old you are this year. You see, when I was a child, I played that Pearl Krabs with you. I have children. What about you? I think you want me and your dad to worry to death. You have to go if you want to, or you have to go if you don't want to. If you don't go, just wait for your mother to drink medicine. "
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Mom said something like this. What else can she say? At first, she also went on a blind date honestly, but she failed every time and was still angry with her mother.
After many blind dates, Anning felt that this was not the case, and she wanted to find an opportunity to stop her mother's arrangement. So this blind date, she had her own ideas.
On the day of the blind date, she invited many relatives and friends to accompany her and said that she would go to see a lively event. The other party thought she came alone, but when she saw a group of people, she suddenly became confused.
The blind date man took the opportunity to go to the toilet and sent a text message to Anning: blind date is blind date. What are you doing with so many relatives and friends? Aren't you afraid to scare me away?
Anning replied, "It's my treat. Don't panic. I'm tired of them forcing me to go on blind dates. I'll show them today. It doesn't matter if you don't like me, just tell them directly and let them see if they dare to urge me to date next time. "
The blind date man was very helpless and said to Anning: "I came to be a hero on a blind date. Do you treat me like cannon fodder now? "
An Ning replied, "Please, since we are all here, we will invite you to dinner and you will play a play with me."
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The blind date man listened to Anning's words and played a play with her. In fact, he didn't want a blind date either, but his parents forced him to come over. Now, because of peace, he can go home and tell his parents.
After they parted that day, the blind date adorned peace. As soon as the parents of the blind date heard it, they went to the top and called the peaceful parents to complain about the peaceful behavior. Peaceful parents have no face and keep apologizing, so it's over.
I came home calmly that day and said to my parents, "mom and dad, don't worry with me yet." I did it for your own good. You are busy everywhere for me every day, but have you ever thought about what I want? If you force me to go on a blind date again, I will go further than today. "
After listening to her words, her parents decided to forget it and leave her alone. Children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren. They force their daughters to go on blind dates, but ungrateful will hurt their feelings. It doesn't matter if she doesn't get married. Two people can afford it anyway.
In fact, Anning also knows the pains of his parents. She is not particularly disgusted with love now, just waiting for the right person.
Parents are generally worried about their children's marriage. After all, marriage is a major event in life. If you meet the right person, you will be happy all your life. They are often reluctant to force their children to date each other, but their children have never been in love and they are in a hurry.
Anning's parents also see that she is still not in love at the age of 29, and she has been anxious to let her daughter date. And peace, when she has no plans to get married, she is unwilling to be forced by her parents.
Instead of parents urging their children all the time, it is better to let them develop on their own. It's only a matter of time before most young people get married. Parents don't have to worry, just wait slowly. Children should also understand their parents' pains and get married when they meet the right one.