Isn't being a housewife a job? If you sincerely think that what you are doing is not a job and you don't know how to respect yourself, do you still expect your family and husband to understand and respect you?
There is no definition of work. I just sleep at home, eat, brush Weibo, watch Tik Tok, follow the drama, and do whatever I want, effortlessly.
Are housewives "unemployed"?
Many housewives get up at half past six in the morning to prepare breakfast for their families.
Go out to buy food in the morning, go home to tidy up the room, clean up, change clothes and take care of the children. As soon as we know noon, everyone is busy with things at home.
Prepare lunch at 12 noon and feed the children lunch to satisfy their appetite. I can't get some rest until the children are settled and asleep.
Get up in the afternoon to do housework and children.
Dinner was prepared with great care. My husband wants to go home for dinner, and my children are tired in the afternoon, so they all need to be supplemented with nutrition. It is not until the evening that everyone goes home and eats, that they can talk to their husbands and children and watch the drama. If the child is still at school, the evening is the time to help the child with his homework, and he can't sleep peacefully until the child sleeps.
The housewife's job has nothing to do with the state of "no job" We have always known that mothers are good at housework, which is not an innate skill of every mother. It is her love for this family that makes her willing to make so many contributions to this family.
Even if the children are all grown up, mothers are still used to doing housework, washing clothes and cooking by themselves ... My mother gives us the feeling that we can do everything well. We always ask her to have more rest and go out for a walk, but mom always tries her best.
Just because a woman is a housewife doesn't mean that she doesn't want to go out to work to earn money, nor does it mean that she can't do other jobs well. Just like taking a team to do a project, a housewife's team is composed of her husband and children. As the brain of the family, she needs to pay attention to every progress at all times and even let herself participate in it. Compared with work, housewives invest more in their families, so being a good housewife also needs high overall planning ability.
If the "team members" at home are disobedient and the task completion is not high, the pressure of being a housewife is much greater than everyone thinks.
It can be seen that housewives are not an easy job, and not all women can do this time-consuming and laborious job without bonuses.
Frankly speaking, even 36 hours a day is not enough for mothers with children. Being a competent housewife is busier than a doctor!
So, housewives have jobs. Please don't think you are an unemployed person. Every full-time housewife is a conscientious leader in her job. They gave up their due enjoyment and status and just wanted to dedicate themselves to a family. Their work is the greatest!