Part I: Division of labor and responsibilities of service personnel.

(a), marriage, marriage; Best man and maid of honor; Hotel manager and fleet manager; Master of ceremonies, cameramen, photographers.

First, witnesses, marriage witnesses, as the name implies, are legal witnesses of marriage. Focusing on the man's family, from the perspective of etiquette, the wedding ceremony is generally in front of the wedding ceremony. It used to be run by matchmakers. The main contents of the witness's speech are: "Marriage is legal, congratulations on the wedding" and so on. At present, witnesses are generally hired by the woman, mostly led by the bride's unit. Of course, witnesses can also be hired by the man. According to traditional etiquette, the wedding is held by the groom's parents. From the etiquette point of view, the wedding ceremony occupies the main position, and the etiquette order is generally after the witness. Now most parents don't get married in person, but entrust others to get married for themselves. Therefore, the job of the marriage master is to marry for parents. The main point of his speech is: "Thank the guests, tell the couple some requirements after marriage", which is also commonly known as "marriage motto". The host must be hired by the man. Witnesses and emcees wear identity red flowers at the wedding, and the wedding speech should not be lengthy. Be sure to arrive at the hotel on time, preferably in the morning 1 1.

Second, the best man and bridesmaids must be unmarried and equal in number. Try not to be much taller than a couple. The best man and bridesmaid should dress appropriately on the wedding day, always pay attention to being inseparable from the couple and provide them with the most needed personal service. If the bridesmaid wears a wedding dress, don't wear heavy makeup; Best man, pay attention to the suit and tie. Bridesmaids usually bring some simple cosmetics and personal items to the bride and make up her makeup at any time. I also want to carry a small bag to store gifts and other items for the couple. The best man accompanied the couple to propose a toast to the guests.

Third, the hotel manager is responsible for the overall preparations for the hotel, led by him and supported by 5-6 welcoming staff.

The main work is:

1, bring holiday supplies to the hotel, including three categories:

A, cigarettes, wine, sugar, melon seeds, drinks.

B, the word' hi', double-sided adhesive tape, marriage certificate, wedding corsage, marriage certificate, wedding couplets, agenda, banners, wedding props (such as flower baskets, garlands, wedding vows declaration, etc.). ).

C. Color buckets, balloons, concierge guns, petals and other wedding supplies; Among them, color buckets, balloons, concierge guns and petals should be given to the hotel on the basis of the total purchase amount. The balloon color bucket brought to the hotel is mainly used for weddings. Don't step on the brides when they get off the bus. Salute is usually used outdoors at the time required by MC.

2. Paste the word' hi', happy couplets, wedding agenda, arrange wedding scene background props, hang banners, test the sound, check the microphone, wedding March, etc.

3. Prepare wedding guides, signs and table signatures; Focus on arranging the bride's table and arranging special people to welcome guests. When welcoming guests, be polite and pay attention to prevent irrelevant people outside from participating (in other words, beware of thieves and fish in troubled waters).

4. Set the table, prepare a glass of wine and contact the hotel to arrange the waiter to set the table, melon seeds, wine, cigarettes, drinks and candy; When toasting, choose a goblet, pour Coca-Cola or red wine, put it on a tray, and sprinkle red rose petals with white cloth. When arranging the stage, we can consider whether to put drinks after the wedding according to the actual situation, so as to avoid spraying new people after individual guests shake their drinks.

5. The flower motorcade that sealed the motorcade's flowering car arrived at the hotel, regardless of whether the guests got off or not. Arrange a special person to quickly dismantle the flowers on the float, pick the flowers on the hood of the float as they are, and send them to the ceremony stage for decoration. Wrap the flowers around the float, break them into petals and throw them out at the wedding.

6. Hold a wedding in a star-rated hotel and dock with the hotel security. Don't let other cars park near the steps of the hotel gate. Because floats generally don't enter the hotel from the normal lane, they usually choose the square under the hotel steps to stop in front of the hotel, which is conducive to creating a grand scene effect. If there is a fountain in front of the hotel, please prompt the hotel to open it.

7. On behalf of the host family and the hotel, make an agreement: No cold dishes before the wedding. Because spraying flowers at the beginning of the wedding is easy to pollute the dishes; Good cold dishes are also not conducive to the guests to concentrate on the ceremony.

Second, the hotel must obtain the consent of the hotel manager or host family for any non-agreed consumption to avoid excessive abnormal expenditure.

Third, confirm the total number of wedding banquets with the hotel and determine the total number of seats for the first time; Try to arrange a table for ten people as much as possible to avoid waste.

Fourth, pay attention to the wedding banquet, leaving space in the middle to let the couple enter the aisle and the wedding scene.

Fifth, agree on the location and supply procedures of drinks. , and someone is in charge.

8. After the wedding banquet, remind the owner to close the stall. Arrange meals for service personnel, check whether any guests have lost items, clean up the remaining tobacco and alcohol, and pack leftovers.

Fourth, the team manager

1. According to the requirements of folk customs, help the couple to draw up the driving route and wedding time, determine the number of escorts from both sides, and arrange enough vehicles for the wedding. After the driving route is set, it is best to run ahead of time so as to know the time, traffic control, prohibition, etc. Then draw a regular road map that can be seen at a glance and indicate the starting point, family, hotel, the section where the motorcade is organized, and the contact information of the motorcade manager, hotel manager, groom and other relevant personnel. The best time to get married is 1 1 back to the hotel in the morning. According to this standard, consider the distance, traffic conditions, when to start, when to get to your parents' home and so on. It takes at least 40 minutes for the bride's house to leave from the door. The overall time design should also have a reservation of at least 15 minutes to deal with unexpected situations such as traffic jams.

2. The team leader should pay enough attention to the float, when to tie it and when to tie it. At the same time, a large number of brooches, bouquets and petals should be brought back on time. It is best to return to the starting point half an hour before departure, because the groom needs to use corsage and hold flowers before departure.

3. On the morning of the wedding, arrange the motorcade according to the agreed time. The camera car is at the front, at least 60 meters away from the float; Then the float begins, and the rest are required to walk in a straight line according to the level of the gift car in turn according to the requirements of folk customs; Give each car a road map, and tie a red cloth strip and a red flower with the word "hi" on the mirror of the limousine.

4. After the motorcade arrives at the bride's family, consider the entrance, placement and U-turn of the motorcade according to the terrain of the bride's family. When the motorcade leaves the family, it should take into account the neighbors' blocking happiness, and generally prepare candy and cigarettes to deal with it.

5. After the motorcade arrives at the hotel, the floats will stop at the agreed position (floats generally don't take the normal lane), and the team manager should remind and cooperate with the hotel manager to seal the wedding ceremony for the motorcade, and start the floats after the newcomers get off the bus.

(2) Marry female guests, rickshaw boys, lighting engineers, sound engineers, salute hands, sprinkle candy, flowers, welcome guests in hotels, and assist the ceremony staff.

1. Marrying a female guest is entrusted by the man's parents to attend the wedding ceremony, with the emphasis on the wedding ceremony. When you arrive at your parents' home, accompany them to greet each other and congratulate each other. When going out, accompany and guide the bride's family to the limousine. After arriving at the hotel, accompany and guide the bride's family to the designated banquet to avoid everyone being surrounded by the bride's family and no one cares, so that the woman's guests feel that someone is taking care of them from beginning to end.

2. Generally, the number of male and female drivers is equal, and the age is 3- 12. Both parents should prepare red envelopes for each other's drivers. The lighting engineer should accompany the cameraman all day on the wedding day and cooperate with the lighting according to the cameraman's requirements.

Third, sprinkle candy as late as possible. It is best to get on the float at the bride's house and sprinkle it after the family is almost there. When sprinkling candy, pay attention to prevent onlookers from grabbing bags; When sprinkling wedding candy, be careful not to sprinkle it all at once, and leave some for others to stop.

Fourth, the salute gunner should carefully read the instructions of the concierge gun when saluting, observe the wind direction, and generally fight against the wind. Pay attention to start on time according to the time and direction required by the MC.

(3) Basic etiquette requirements for service personnel and guests on the wedding day.

First, listen to the master of ceremonies as a whole, and then everyone will perform their duties and cooperate with each other to complete their promised service work on time within the agreed time. It is strictly forbidden to push the Committee and wrangle.

Second, the stars hold the moon. Pay attention to gathering new people anytime and anywhere. Service personnel and guests had better stand behind the new people, so that they can fully feel the happiness of being the protagonist in their own lives.

Third, be careful not to block the camera. The linear distance between the camera and the couple should not be blocked or crossed back and forth.

Fourth, pay attention to the safety of the celebration. Color barrels are flammable, so avoid fire sources when using them, and avoid spraying color barrels when lighting cigarettes.

Fifth, pay attention to the unified use of holiday supplies, do not get together, it is best to have holiday supplies at the wedding to set off the atmosphere of the whole day.

Sixth, pay attention to the basic respect for the bride when joking. Don't spray the paint bucket on the bride's face.

Seven, pay attention to the cleanliness of clothing, avoid sloppy clothes, wear clothes that violate Geely; Make fun of ways to avoid pranks.

Part II: Preparations for purchasing holiday supplies:

1. Macroscopically, it includes new houses, decoration, furniture, electrical appliances, daily necessities, new house decoration, ornaments, etc.

Second, micro.

1, cigarettes, wine, sugar, melon seeds and drinks are purchased as required. Among them, we should pay attention to wine, including sealing gifts for motorcade drivers and toasting at wedding banquets. After the wedding, candy and melon seeds are considered as gifts for personal friends and relatives. Beer will be prepared in summer.

2, camera, film, flash battery non-commercial camera services (friends help) consider video tapes, video lights, etc. , depending on the wedding grade and scale, buy on demand. The camera equipment required for commercial camera service is provided by the cameraman. It is recommended to invite a commercial cameraman with good reputation for the wedding, and it is best to have two machines to serve at the same time, so that two machines can shoot together and avoid shooting risks.

3. Color buckets Color buckets are divided into colored flowers (also called spray flowers), colored snow (flying snow) and colored strips (colored ribbons). Pay attention to all three when buying, with colored flowers and stripes as the main ones and colored snow as the auxiliary ones. Also pay attention to the color of the cover. What is the color of the cover and the color of the sprayed flowers, so choose red and pay attention to color matching. Be careful not to buy a white cover, buy a red cover. Pay attention to buying products from regular manufacturers to ensure the quality of the celebration. Usually, you should check whether there is a factory name, address and telephone number on the packaging of colored barrels, and don't buy three-no products. Color buckets are purchased on demand according to the wedding grade and scale. Generally need 16 barrels -60 barrels. Take 20 barrels as an example: 8 barrels of colored flowers, 8 barrels of colored stripes and 4 barrels of colored snow are the best combination.

4. Balloon salute has 500- 1000 small balloons and about 200 large balloons; The night before the wedding, the balloon was blown up. Don't blow it up in advance to prevent it from running out. Then tie them into strings, 20 or 40 strings with red lines. Balloons mainly replace firecrackers. Big balloons are used to decorate the wedding scene, and children play with them. Protocol guns are recommended to be purchased in various sizes, large for outdoor use and small for indoor use. If you want to buy a celebration salute produced by a regular manufacturer, you can buy it according to the grade and scale of the wedding and your own economic situation, usually 4- 12. Take 8 pieces as an example: 4 pieces of 80- 100 cm big salute and 4 pieces of 30-40 cm small salute. It is best to seek the advice of professionals (such as MC) before buying colored barrels and concierge guns, so as to avoid buying fake and shoddy products and affecting the celebration effect.

5, dresses, wedding tokens, wedding gifts, wedding vows, the new dress pays attention to the new inside and outside, so shirts, underwear, shoes, socks, belts, ties, collars, accessories and so on. Should be considered. The bride must have at least two sets of dresses, a wedding dress, a toast, or three sets of dresses. The groom's dress and suit should pay attention to removing the trademark and pocket before the wedding day. Wedding rings are common wedding keepsakes, and there are also commemorative premarital confidential gifts for the other party, which are given at the wedding for the other party to guess. The oath is jointly drafted by both parties or provided by the master of ceremonies. You can also use each other's tone to draw up each other's vows, keep them secret before marriage, and ask each other to read them at the wedding. This method is very interesting.

6, brooches, hand-held flowers, headdress flowers, wrist flowers, petals, the person wearing a brooch is the bride and groom; Parents of both parties; Witness and host of marriage; Best man and maid of honor; Master of ceremonies, guests, etc. , make corresponding preparations. Holding a bouquet of flowers, it was presented by the groom when he saw the bride. Head flower and wrist flower refer to the flowers used by the bride's head and wrist, which are generally composed of lilies and orchids. Petals refer to red rose petals, and the more the better, throw them on wedding day and wedding day.

7. Guest book, invitation card, red line, large and small red envelopes, happy characters, happy couplets, agenda, red cloth strips, handbag (used by drivers to seal gifts), small plastic bag containing happy candy, double-sided tape and brooch pins.

8. Various props needed to set off the festive atmosphere in wedding activities. For example: wedding background, stereo, music CD, flower gallery, rainbow door, red carpet, festive red candle, performance banquet, banner, band, flying balloons and pigeons, etc.

Part III: Etiquette requirements for newcomers.

First, be generous and decent, with a smile. The bride and groom prepare a bright smile for each other. Even if some people are too happy, the couple can't lose their temper and be unhappy. Always smiling.

Second, enjoy the service frankly. Before marriage, the couple will distribute everything to others under the coordination of the master of ceremonies. On the wedding day, the groom should find the right style of the head portrait and never enter the manager's state. The bride finds the feeling of a princess and enjoys the service frankly. Even if the service work done by friends is far from the requirements of the couple, let it be, because it is almost useless for the couple to arrange anything on the wedding day. It also affects the manners of newcomers.

Third, newlyweds should pay attention to the fact that on the wedding day, they should always walk with a shadow, preferably arm in arm, and keep a happy smile shoulder to shoulder, arm in arm.

Fourth, when the indoor space is relatively small, we should pay attention to giving the cameraman a "face" and let him shoot more faces of new people.

Five, the bride should pay attention to self-protection. When opening the door for the groom in the boudoir, when getting off the float in the hotel, and when the bride comes out at the beginning of the wedding, it is the most violent time to spray the color bucket. Brides should pay attention to putting down their veils at these times.

Sixth, the new toast is in order of age, first female guest, then male guest; The principle of elder first, leader later, and friend later. For women, guests, grooms and men, guests and brides. Newcomers don't kick or pester wine when toasting, and they don't persuade wine when toasting. They should act quickly and appropriately to ensure that the table arrives. Generally speaking, the banquet should be placed at one end of the table as far as possible.

Part IV: Determine the style, form and grade of the wedding.

The happiness of a lifetime is a wedding. How to make the wedding grand and how to remember the sweetness and happiness? First, choose your favorite wedding form. There are many kinds of wedding forms. There are about nine kinds of wedding forms that can be seen in Zhengzhou, which can be summarized as follows: there are nine kinds of wedding forms, modern fashion is the main item, collective wedding is unforgettable, traditional wedding customs are suona ringing, national characteristics enter the bridal chamber, European and American churches sing the Bible, Chinese and Western churches combine happiness, stars hold the moon hall to make flowers, green pastoral knot mandarin ducks, and alternative weddings are the most fashionable.

Each wedding form has its specific symbolic content. Modern popular wedding is our most common wedding form with the characteristics of the times, such as float wedding, hotel ceremony, big banquet for guests and friends, couple toasting, and bridal chamber making trouble. Group wedding is the most worry-free choice, which is also strongly advocated by the government, but it is not conducive to highlighting the wedding personality. The traditional wedding form is also called pure Chinese wedding, and its main contents are shaking sedan chair, ringing suona, picking up the bride, wearing red robes, wearing red flowers, lighting candles, worshiping heaven and earth, worshiping the high hall and entering the bridal chamber. Weddings in every country have their own traditions and characteristics. There are 56 ethnic groups in China, and weddings have their own advantages and disadvantages. If you want to make your wedding unique and exotic, it is a good choice to learn from the wedding customs of ethnic minorities. European and American churches sing the Bible. According to European and American wedding customs, at least one of the newlyweds is a Christian. Its main contents include churches, priests, bibles, holy water, wedding vows, wedding rings, choirs and so on. Chinese and western wedding refers to the combination of church wedding and modern popular wedding, which is very common in Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan, but not much in Zhengzhou. This is a very distinctive wedding in the form of a buffet. The wedding was mixed with dancing and performance. Everyone is singing and dancing, and the stars are holding the moon to bless the new couple. The green pastoral mandarin duck is the representative of outdoor wedding. In nature, it testifies and marries in heaven and earth, mountains and rivers and guests. Plant a love tree together, burn incense and swear, hold your hand and grow old with your son. There are various forms of alternative wedding, such as air wedding, underwater wedding and so on; The purpose is to be original, unique, novel, exciting and unforgettable.

After determining the form and content of the wedding, it is necessary to clarify the grade, specifications and investment plan of the wedding, and then entrust professionals to plan, arrange, organize or design their own plans and make preparations in an orderly manner.

Careful preparation before marriage is the basic condition for a successful wedding. So how to carry out novel and meticulous wedding creativity and planning? What should I pay attention to before marriage?

Wedding creativity and planning vary from person to person. On the basis of their own ability, as long as there is a grand celebration and being the protagonist in their own lives, the couple will fully experience the sacred happiness of marriage, feel satisfied and never forget it. This is good creativity and planning. Pre-marital preparation involves all aspects and there are many clues. In order to let the newlyweds better master the procedures, methods and precautions of wedding preparation, we can divide them into macro preparation and micro preparation.

1. Macro-preparation One month before the wedding, we mainly do macro-preparation, including decorating the new house, purchasing the daily necessities for the wedding, determining the location, form, specifications and grade of the wedding and the way to thank the guests, and soliciting the opinions of parents, relatives and professionals. Listen to their suggestions and plan the wedding as a whole. After the wedding plan is determined, we should focus on soliciting the opinions of the woman and obtain her consent and response.

Second, the month before the wedding is mainly micro-preparation. Micro-preparation is complicated, and the key point is to cover all aspects and try to consider the needs of every subtle link.

1. Buy wedding supplies invitations, gossip books, reception desks, dresses, wedding gifts, cigarettes, wedding banquets, wedding candy, melon seeds and peanuts, drinks, colorful flowers, red envelopes, red paper and red cloth, happy characters, couplets, banners, wedding backgrounds, red carpets, audio lights, pins, double-sided adhesive tapes, film batteries, video tapes and firecrackers balloons.

Witness, host, best man, flower girl, car driver, photographer, cameraman, wedding service personnel, ceremony service personnel, reception personnel, etc.

3. Implement and check the wedding hotel and menu, distribute invitations as needed, contact wedding motorcades, bands and banquet performances, and prepare driving maps. Decide on the wedding agenda, programs, music. Pay attention to the weather forecast and make corresponding preparations. Finally, check the whole pre-marital preparation to see if there are any omissions.