Because I haven't seen her for a few days, Xiao Xuan, who suffered from missing, suddenly jumped into her mother's arms excitedly. kisses and hugs, how sweet!

After a while, grandma's voice came from the kitchen. "Dinner-let's eat."

When mother heard these words, she said to Xiao Xuan, "Come, let's put the dining table and all the chairs together." Xiao Xuan muttered, while reluctantly put down the chair.

Mother frowned when she saw it and said nothing.

After the family sat around the dining table and ate dinner happily, my father said to Xiao Xuan, "Xiao Xuan, can you help my grandparents and parents clean up the dishes on the table and send them to the kitchen?"

I saw that Xiao Xuan was even more unhappy now, and plausibly said, "I will do my own thing, and I only send my bowl!"

When the whole family saw it, they suddenly stopped talking.

The so-called team spirit refers to a collective consciousness recognized by all members of the team. All members of the team have a common goal. Their behaviors are interdependent and influence each other, and they can cooperate well and pursue collective success.

In contemporary society, the significance and importance of teamwork, whether for the collective or for the individual, cannot be overemphasized.

As the saying goes, "When people gather firewood, the flame is high", and "Three heads are better than one", all of them say so.

Dad thinks that in the above cases, Xiao Xuan's behavior is a typical manifestation of her obstinacy and lack of team consciousness.

The reason why children are like this is not unrelated to their family education and influence.

Usually, in the education of children, some parents may overemphasize independence, such as doing their own things. There are also some parents who give their children too many tasks in their lives, which makes them bored.

Of course, children's refusal to do things for others may also be a manifestation of self-awareness. Although this may not be in line with our cognition and recognition.

Children go their own way and overemphasize themselves. In a sense, it can be considered that children have awakened their personality and self-awareness.

In dad's view, we can appreciate children's personality, but as parents and the first teacher of children's growth, we must not neglect to cultivate children's sexual ability.

Because, if a person overemphasizes personality and lacks * * *, then he will definitely not be welcomed by others.

Then, how should we cultivate children's team consciousness and cooperative spirit in our usual family and life?

Here, dad will give you three suggestions:

First, from the details, always let the children understand that in this small group of families, every member has rights and responsibilities.

To guide children, we should not only enjoy the care and love of adults, but also care about family and the elderly.

Second, encourage children to create opportunities to participate in group activities. In the activity, let them make contributions, experience happiness, realize their own value and be satisfied.

Third, pay attention to observation, affirm and praise children's behavior of solidarity and mutual assistance with others. Through continuous strengthening and internalization, it will eventually become a stable and good quality for children.

Finally, dad sincerely wishes every parent a good boy who has both personality and courage to show, and is good at uniting others and helping each other!