Connecting with practice, I find that people have many wrong understandings of reading.
First, I don't study, but I hope my child will become a person who loves reading.
Parents have little education and can't even read. However, children love reading and learning, and their grades are also very good. In the end, they achieved great results. Is that so? Yes Because that child has a gift for reading. He is a genius.
Your child, right?
If your brain has never been very smart, but your child is extremely smart, what you should do at this time is actually a paternity test.
So, if you really don't like reading, you want your child to love learning, but the child is not a genius. I suggest you pretend to hold a book at least when she is doing her homework or reviewing the text, just like me.
At least, don't call mahjong on the table at this time.
More parents will play mobile phones while their children are studying. Tik Tok, North America is faster, or do you know or don't pursue drama, right?
After the children finish their homework, they will reach for your mobile phone to play games. He also said that all his friends were playing, and they were almost bitter. What would you do?
It is said that playing mobile phones is an adult's business, but children can't.
Isn't this cheating?
The second is about the role of reading.
Say something serious, such as "praising poems and books" and "reading is the most valuable investment in the world", all of which are taken by scholars.
The connotation of reading is called learning at a big place and reading at a small place.
But no matter what the meaning is, reading is not a sufficient condition for success by secular standards. No one can say that reading a lot of books will surely succeed. Nor is it a necessary condition for success, because you can't say that you won't succeed without reading.
Some self-media articles are used to saying which big brother is watching every day. It seems that Ta's success is due to reading. Isn't this bullshit? There are many people who read more than Ta. At least, there are so many university professors.
Many people say that reading is a feeling. In my opinion, reading is a way of life. This is more simple.
Maybe you will say that the same person, who doesn't love learning so much, may not succeed.
I like to hear that. The key lies in what to read, how to read, how to think and how to use it.
Many people sum up the purpose of reading as three. One is recreation, which means killing time. This is no more elegant than drinking tea and singing k, but it can only be said that it is more economical.
The second purpose is to obtain information. This fork is bigger. Some people seek information for writing academic papers and doing research. Some just want to forward a few health articles, and even spread some rumors because of the lack of basic scientific literacy. You know, as an ordinary person, many things can't be falsified.
The third purpose is to learn skills. This can be divided into two layers. One is basic. For example, I have been criticized by my friends for my poor cooking, so I went to find two cookbooks to study. Or a cookbook in one hand and a spatula in the other. After a long time, you may become a chef accidentally. It's a long shot, but it's possible.
To a higher level is to upgrade cognition and establish a knowledge system. This is one of the keys to reading.
The third misunderstanding about reading is how to read.
Many people know that "opening books is beneficial" and think that they just pick up books to read, but it is actually wrong.
To tell the truth, I used to be such a person, but I took a lot of detours, and it was only these two years that I became clear.
There are many books about how to read and study in this world, but some of them are nonsense.
For example, the so-called "quick reading" and "image reading" simply violate the common sense of human brain operation.
There are also useful methods. I'll just list a few things that I think should be paid attention to. Mm-hmm, that's what I think. It's not universal. Everyone may adapt in different ways.
1. Don't read it if you don't understand it. There is no book in the world that you have to read.
I studied four classical novels when I was a child, because my name was very famous. As a result, I saw a dream of red mansions in the middle, but I couldn't stand it anymore and blamed myself for a long time. Later, after reading an article, I realized that many bosses had not finished eating this vegetable cake. ...
Many classics are like this. Don't listen to those who advocate reading classics. Some classics will read that you doubt life.
2. Important books should be read repeatedly, intensively and abstractly, and relayed in your own words.
3. Thinking and output. Otherwise, my mind will be empty after reading it. If you are studying instead of killing time, don't believe that nonsense. Although you have forgotten all the books you have read, they have become your temperament and flesh.
This is nonsense. You can't melt anything without really reading.
4. Have the consciousness of building a knowledge system. The process of absorbing knowledge is a point, a line and a surface.
Fragmented learning is popular recently, but some people disagree. It is said that learning like listening to books and lectures online can only get fragmentary and useless knowledge points.
If we compare building a knowledge system to building a house, the knowledge points are bricks and stones. You don't have many bricks and stones, and you just want to repair the house. Why don't you go to heaven?
According to the principle of knowledge tree, every subject has several key nodes: enlightenment, inheritance and integration, and these nodes are all individual people.
For example, if you want to have a general understanding of psychology, you might as well start with Freud. Fromm is the successor and Adler is the integrator.
This is a vertical line, like a tree trunk. At the same time, we need to pay attention to their respective horizontal connections. Supporters, opponents, influencers, friends and colleagues, etc.
After reading this, you will have a complete understanding of psychology.
There is another way to interpret it. When you read a book written by a writer, you will find people he admires. If you look for this man's works to read, you will find that he has other writers who are greatly influenced. It's also interesting to watch and find all the way.
You can avoid wasting time reading useless books by people looking for books to read.
Finally, and most importantly, don't force yourself if you don't understand books. If there are children studying at home, it is also excellent to take two stories.
Like me, I buy books like a mountain, and reading is like reeling. I often think that it would be better to spend so much money on lottery tickets.