People say that illness comes from the mouth and disaster comes from the mouth. The main thing is to be careful when you speak, and be careful not to touch other people's wounds. What you say casually may be the bottom line that others care about, so when you talk to others again, you must look at this person's experience and don't make jokes casually, otherwise you won't know if you have offended others.
For those of us who are careless, we should be more careful when we speak, because we never know how to look at other people's faces and don't remember to look at other people's experiences. There are bound to be many people offended. Of course, the other party knows that you are unintentional, but for others, it is very uncomfortable. I always think of some uncomfortable words, and my heart is unbearable.
For a generous person, he won't take these things seriously at all, but for some stingy people, they will hold grudges. They won't think you said it by accident, but they will think you did it on purpose, so they made enemies invisibly. Isn't that right? So be careful what you say.