1. Keep open communication: communicate with your husband and express your feelings about his family difficulties. Share your feelings and opinions honestly and listen to his opinions. Strive to establish an open, honest and respectful communication channel.
2. Respect differences: accept differences and diversity among family members. Everyone has different backgrounds, values and lifestyles. Try to respect each other's views, don't try to change them, but learn to accept them and live in peace with them.
3. Find common ground: Try to find common interests and topics with your husband's family. Find some common interests that can be discussed and shared, such as hobbies, movies, sports, etc. This can increase communication and establish closer ties.
4. Be polite and friendly: No matter how you get along with your husband's family, try to be polite and friendly. Even if you have differences or conflicts, try to express your views in a friendly and respectful way.
5. Set boundaries: If you feel uncomfortable or hurt by your family's behavior or words, learn to set personal boundaries. Express your boundaries clearly and stick to them. This can help you protect your feelings and dignity.
6. Seek compromise and compromise: Try to seek compromise and compromise solutions in family conflicts or differences. Find a compromise acceptable to both sides and promote harmonious and balanced coexistence.
7. Seek professional help: If the problem of getting along with your in-laws seriously affects your happiness and marriage, you can consider seeking professional counseling or family therapy. Professional counselors can provide more in-depth guidance and support.
The most important thing is to remember that every family has some contradictions and challenges. Try to stay calm and rational, try to solve problems, and always pay attention to the relationship and interaction between you and your husband.