1, my mother-in-law is very busy every day, so I belong to the kind of person who has no retreat and no dependence. Accordingly, I don't have time to be "blue and thin, mushrooms", and everything depends on myself. I used to be lazy. Now, since I have a baby, I am highly concentrated every day. In order to go home early, my work efficiency will be much higher. Needless to say, my mother-in-law doesn't help me with my children. It's really exercise.

2. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed since ancient times. The boat between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will turn over, and you have no chance to breathe. Especially after giving birth to a child, the old people have different ideas from themselves, which will inevitably lead to educational differences. If you meet a husband who is always on the side of her mother-in-law, it will add fuel to the fire. The child's education is really out of control.

If your mother-in-law doesn't help with the children, just play, which not only effectively reduces the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also allows her children to take care of them as much as they want, even if they are very tired!

3. It is said that the husband loves you after giving birth. When the housewife chooses not to help with the children, there are only three of you in this family, and she is always unable to take care of the children alone.

My best friend Lele's husband is very considerate. He has never been in the kitchen before. He sees Lele taking care of the children so hard every day, and starts to use mobile phone recipes every day to learn how to cook nutritious meals for the couple in various ways. How enviable! That's true. Whether your husband loves you or not can be seen from his usual life performance. Do you have a husband who loves you and dotes on you?

Dear Ma Bao, don't complain that your mother-in-law is not good to you and doesn't even care about your children. Think about it from another angle. Mother-in-law worked hard all her life, and her son finally got married. It is completely understandable that she wants to have a rest. There is a kind of happiness called "my mother-in-law doesn't help me with my children."

5, there is a kind of happiness called "my mother-in-law doesn't help me with my children", which really comes to my heart!