Before Yi Nengjing was born, there were three sisters in the family, and three others died unfortunately. It is completely understandable that Yi Nengjing's parents are so keen on having children. As the old saying goes, there are three kinds of unfilial, and the last one is the biggest. Yi Nengjing's father tried his best to give birth to a boy to continue the incense.
Every time Yi Nengjing's mother was pregnant, his father Wu Min was happy for a while, but when the child was born, he was immediately disappointed. When mother Yang Shuwan was pregnant with Yi Nengjing, the doctor told her it was a girl. Wu Min and Yang Wanyi didn't want this child at all, and the only idea was to abort it.
When Yi Nengjing was a guest in The Golden Star Show, she also recalled in detail what method her mother had used to have an abortion. Jumping off the sofa and taking medicine, Yang Shuwan tried all the "indigenous methods", but the fetus in the womb was still safe. Yang Shuwan, who really didn't want to toss, decided to go to the hospital to abort the child, which was both safe and insurance.
Just as Yang Shuwan was about to go out, the neighbor next door said, "Your stomach is really sharp. It must be a boy. " This neighbor is an old lady. As the saying goes, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you, and poplar will believe it. But after the baby was born, it was a girl. Yang Shuwan was disappointed and felt that the old man's words were not necessarily credible.
When Yi Nengjing was a child, what he heard most was that his father Wu Min said, "Why aren't you a boy?"? What can the Wu family do in the future? " This "discrimination" deeply hurt Yi Nengjing's young mind, but it should be Yang Shuwan who shed tears.
When Wu Min couldn't have a boy, she divorced Yang Shuwan. The burden of raising four children fell on Wu Min, and Wu Min finally chose to marry the Japanese. Yi Nengjing's name was changed from "Wu Jingyi" to "Yi Nengjing River".
The twists and turns that Yi Nengjing experienced as a child may be reflected in her name. Her parents divorced, and she was not so hated. It's hard to imagine how much trauma this girl suffered when she grew up.
1985, Yi Nengjing was signed by Fei Ying Records Company, and his stage name was officially "Yi Nengjing". Yi Nengjing is very lucky. In the first year of her debut, she met Yu Chengqing, and they quickly developed into lovers' relationship, but it was not made public.
Maybe there are too many scars in my heart. When I meet a little warmth, I think it is the sun, so Yi Nengjing completely hugs Yu Chengqing. Reality gave her a blow, and all the reasons were Yu Chengqing's family background.
The Yu family once founded a tobacco company. His grandfather was the mayor of Kunming, his father had his own career, and his mother was a dramatist and a real noble family. Compared with Yu Chengqing, Yi Nengjing's family is a little shabby.
It's really hard for rich people. When Yu Chengqing brought Yi Nengjing home, the whole family was not full of smiles, but full of disgust and dissatisfaction. Yu Chengqing's family couldn't accept Yi Nengjing, whose family was divided, and Yi Nengjing's career made them disdain. How good can a girl who works hard in the entertainment circle be?
At that moment, it seemed that the whole world was hostile to Yi Nengjing. Fortunately, Yu Chengqing became an angel, silently guarding her and affirming her. Because Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing are both artists, their love affair is not convenient to make public, so it has been kept secret. This kind of secrecy is not three or five years, but 14 years.
Some people think that 14 may be nothing, but when Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing fell in love, they were still a slim girl of 18 years old, and they were 32 years old when they got married. I have to admire Yi Nengjing's forbearance and persistence in this relationship, and Yu Chengqing also gave her the best result.
In 2000, Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing got married in the United States. Two years later, they welcomed their lovely son Harry. It seems that everything is so happy, but the real situation is far from simple.
Nobles are born with a sense of superiority. Yu Chengqing's family despised Yi Nengjing, and it was impossible to change and pass time smoothly. Even after getting married and having children, Yi Nengjing's status is not so high.
Yi Nengjing once said in a book published by himself: "I am at your home, getting along with your family, the TV is turned on regularly, the cartoons at five o'clock are shown to your sister's children, the entertainment news at six o'clock is your mother's concern for your work, and the news your 90-year-old grandmother will listen to at seven o'clock will be particularly loud."
This is just the details of marriage, and you will know Yi Nengjing's position when you think about it. Yi Nengjing is inferior to Yu Chengqing. She lives in an environment without love. All she wants is love. She wanted to be spoiled as a little princess, but Yu Chengqing, who was busy with her career, ignored her.
The love between Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing is a bit bitter. In 2008, the news of their separation came, but neither of them admitted it. At the end of 2008, some media photographed Yi Nengjing and Huang Weide going out hand in hand, and people generally agreed that "Yi Nengjing cheated".
Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing are not divorced. No matter how bad the relationship is, Yi Nengjing can't go too far. But Yi Nengjing just holding hands, there is no reason to speculate on those unnecessary things. Through this incident, we can also know that the relationship between Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing is not particularly good, otherwise, how could we just hold other people's hands?
In 2009, Yi Nengjing officially divorced Yu Chengqing, ending 23 years of love. When everyone was waiting for the official announcement from Yi Nengjing and Huang Weide, no one answered, which also proved that they might really have nothing.
Influenced by Hand in Hand, Yi Nengjing's image was completely destroyed, so he had to suspend his work and didn't show up for more than a year. When Yi Nengjing came back from China's Got Talent, no one cared about her relationship with Yu Chengqing.
Yi Nengjing is still waiting for a man who dotes on her. A failed marriage made her very cautious and even less active. 20 13, Yi Nengjing met Qin Hao without much thought, but Qin Hao actively pursued him.
In the face of Qin Hao's pursuit, Yi Nengjing refused instead of being excited. As far as age is concerned, Yi Nengjing is older than Qin Hao 10, which is not appropriate in any case. Yi Nengjing also said rudely, "Do you know my past? I am older than you, and I have a son. " Qin Hao didn't know how to answer, but he didn't give up chasing Yi Nengjing.
Perhaps it was this persistence that really touched Yi Nengjing, and they really came together. 20 14 years, they didn't announce their love affair in such a high profile. The outside world is generally not optimistic, but Qin Hao proposed to Yi Nengjing and eventually married her. They got married on 20 15, and everything was so natural and smooth.
Yi Nengjing was 47 years old when she got married. She suffered many injuries, but she was also warmed by the healer Qin Hao. People don't think that Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing can make it to the end, but looking back, they have been married for five years and have been in love for six years without any negative news.
See the truth in the details. Yi Nengjing will write a "short composition" for Qin Hao. This feeling must be warm, which just proves that there is no need to predict what will happen in the future. Focus on the present, and it is enough to live the present.
Maybe sometimes he is a doer, and people call him a doer, but when he meets a Tathagata, even Sun can't jump out of his palm. Qin Hao's sentence "If you don't do it, I'll bear it" is really affectionate and appropriate.