A smart wife always plays different roles in front of her lover. When her lover is unhappy, she can comfort him like a big sister until a smile appears on his lips; when her lover is sick, she holds him in her arms and pats his shoulders gently like a mother. Make him a pot of good soup to keep him warm; but when she feels wronged, she will cry like a child in front of her lover to gain his care and comfort.

1. Husbands are there for love, not for anger. To love your husband is to love yourself.

2. When my husband wants to eat an apple, he washes it immediately. Experience has proven that the result of pushing and pushing is not only hurtful but also consumes enough time and energy to wash the apples.

3. When ordering, you should clearly state what you want to eat. This avoids the possibility that no one will like to eat it after ordering, or only one party likes to eat it and will complain afterwards.

4. Never talk about breakup or divorce when quarreling, so as not to be unable to step down afterwards. If I was wrong, after the quarrel, and he still had a sullen face, I would pretend to be cute, pretend to be pitiful, pretend to be Elf Mouse, pretend to be Crayon Shin-chan, pretend to be Chibi Maruko-chan, in short, just cling to him shamelessly. This trick works every time! If I am being reasonable and he is wrong, I will act like a stepmother and give him some opportunities to talk to him. GG will apologize to me very sincerely, so sincerely that I can’t hold my face.

5. Try not to use food (especially fruits, which are heavy to carry) as gifts, so as not to forget them after eating.

6. When arguing, try to be less angry and shed more tears. When my wife was my girlfriend, whenever she cried, I would be helpless and anxious. I'm most afraid of a woman crying, so every time she cries, I immediately hug, kiss and coax her. I also pretend to be a monkey and imitate a puppy, but in the end she pinches me and bites me, saying I'm a meddler. Nosy deserves it, alas, it is so unreasonable.

7. Be sure to remember your husband’s birthday (both solar and lunar) and be the first to say happy birthday to your husband.

8. Develop the habit of laughing when you see your husband (you can imagine that when you are walking together, because his increasingly bulging belly looks from a distance, people can’t figure out which one is the pregnant woman). Especially when I get home from get off work and open the door.

9. When you need your husband to accompany you but he cannot accompany you, imagine that you are the wife who protects your home and country, and tell him: Just do your work, I can do it.

10. Pay attention to your feminine characteristics when you are having sex.

11. Deliberately kiss him and cover him with quilt when he is half asleep and half awake.

12. Pretend to admire him when he brags about himself, and show hope for a happy future life. In fact, more men like to show off their various advantages to women. At this time, they just need to listen. Because he just wants you to "worship" him, and remember to give him a look of affirmation from time to time.

13. When you watch TV or a CD and see a story about a miserable marriage, think about the time when your husband was good to you. If he is not around, give him a call. If he is around, , just lay on him and cry for a while, and said, let’s not do that, okay?

14. Show excitement after your husband pays attention to you, and say "Husband, you are the best to me!" to encourage him.

15. Occasionally talk to your husband in a casual tone, such as how a male colleague wanted to invite you to drink coffee when he first came here, but you refused because he wanted to buy you a T-shirt. .

16. Since you have chosen to spend your life with him, don’t fantasize about changing him. The only one who can change is yourself. Education is futile, reformation is possible. If that doesn't work, have a way out before you fall out with him. It is 80% true that women like men, but it is 100% true that women are never satisfied with men. Women always hope to transform men according to their own wishes and imagination, especially their boyfriends (even if they become husbands, this is no exception). Originally, other men have nothing to do with me, and the transformation is not as convenient as my own boyfriend, so I should just treat him as a test subject.

17. Use his money to buy fitness clothes and cosmetics. In his eyes, at least you are better than others at every age. And this is very easy to do as long as you are willing to modify it. Men are happy to be alone for the beauty of their wives. In fact, a truly good man is often willing to spend money on the woman he loves because it is his happiness. In his eyes, a woman looks the cutest when she spends his money, like a flower in full bloom, extraordinarily beautiful. A man feels satisfied, proud, feels his own value, and feels the meaning of making money.

18. Find something good for you to do when you are bored, and it doesn’t matter if you spend more money. Remember not to choose to chat with a man. Once Hongxing cheats on you, the best result is that you will often be stuck in the dilemma of whether to go on a date or not.

19. Your husband’s shortcomings should be viewed in two. There are no absolute shortcomings and advantages in the world.

If he is lazy, then he will have more rest time; if he has no money, then he will be less likely to cheat; if he is ugly, there will be less possibility of a third party; if he is not motivated , he will focus all his attention on you. Don't think that there can really be a man who is like a radar watch that never wears out. It’s not that you can’t encounter it, it’s that you really don’t have it. But this does not completely deny the existence of the "new good man". Men always have some shortcomings. The best choice is to find someone whose shortcomings are also cute, and someone who dares to reveal all his shortcomings in front of you.

20. When a man is working, studying and thinking, don’t try to divert your husband’s attention to you. Because they are tired from running around for the same family, the only thing they can do at this time is to give him a quiet space. They can add water to his almost empty water glass, or make a pot of pig's trotters and white fungus soup and wait for him. After finishing his work, he would have a drink with the scattered lights outside the window, and he would feel particularly warm.

Ten principles of how to be a “good wife”!

One: Be absolutely gentle

It is said that heroes have a hard time with beauty, but God cannot allow every woman in the world to have the beauty of a fish and a goose. appearance, so if you are not beautiful, you must first be gentle. As an extremely good wife, being gentle is of course the top priority.

When he comes back from get off work and has not entered the door, you have to take his bag and put his slippers towards him. Then make him a cup of tea and peel an apple (preferably cut into pieces). (Into a movie), if he is in a good mood and wants to chat with you for a while, you must not say: "Hey, hubby, I still have to do laundry and cook, and we will talk later." You have to sit down quickly and softly Communicate with him in a low voice and listen to him talk about his "heroic deeds" while showing admiration; if he is in a bad mood and gets angry at you, don't say: "Hey, what are you yelling at? I'm at home." What can you do? If you have the ability, go out and show it off!" If you want to be a good wife, the most important thing to do at this time is to sit down with him and say sympathetically: "My dear, don't be angry, look at who has done this to our family. My good-tempered husband has been irritated, there must be something wrong with this guy!" Guan Guan said he couldn't get angry no matter how hard he tried.

Who said heroes have trouble with beauty? In fact, women’s gentleness is what men fear and love most. When he is tired, you give him a beating; when he is in pain, you rub it for him; when he is hot, you fan him; when he is thirsty, you give him a glass of water; when he smiles, you feel happy in your heart; When he cries, you have to hold him in your arms like a child. In short, a gentle woman should think about her husband, regard his joys and sorrows as her own, and then put her own aside for the time being! Just imagine, if you are really tender to the core, then your husband will still stay by your side obediently and cannot be driven away even if you want!

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Two: Pay absolute attention to your own image

God did not give you a beautiful face or a devil-like figure, but he also did not allow you to ruin yourself at will. . It is often seen that some married women are not particular about their dress. She didn't even wear a bra when she went to work. When a curious person asked, she looked surprised: "I'm already married and don't want to find a husband anymore. Why do I dress up like this? Besides, it's more convenient to go home and breastfeed my child." Ah! "There are definitely not a few women like this who think that after marrying their husbands, they don't need to put on makeup for anyone else. In fact, it is still needed, and it is very needed.

Which husband would like a wife who can wear a set of pajamas all over the world? I often see some women even wearing pajamas when eating food or going shopping. This is really unacceptable! Didn’t you say that? Women are born not only to dress themselves up, but also to dress up men's world. How can you just fool around with this top priority just because you are married? A good wife should know how to wear light makeup and heavy makeup, and know what clothes to wear for certain occasions. It doesn’t matter if she’s not pretty, but she must be dignified and decent! Don’t wear a pair of travel shoes under a ladylike skirt, a pair of high heels under sports pants, don’t wear stockings that have been stripped off, and pay attention to the “scenery” of your armpits under a suspender top. If you often displease your husband, undermine him, and disgrace him, then forget about your reputation as a good wife, and even your marriage will be a red flag for you

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Three: Take good care of your husband’s stomach

I don’t know who came up with this idea: To take good care of your husband, you must first take good care of his stomach. As a result, there are far more “sister-in-laws” than “uncles” serving food in the market. But let’s not say whether this is true or philosophical. In short, it is correct to follow it accurately.

A good wife must never say coquettishly: "Honey, hurry up and cook, I'm starving!" In fact, many men are thinking in their hearts: Why should I marry a wife who doesn't just cook for me and do laundry? I just don't dare to say it. Therefore, don’t make your husband murmur in his heart just for a few meals, it’s not worth it. You have to study the recipes carefully and know the "Three Hundred Cooking Tips" by heart. What soups and ingredients, how to mix which dishes, how much MSG and salt to add, you have to think over and over again, practice over and over again, until you are perfect. If you are so proficient in cooking that your cooking skills are almost ready for a "Manchu-Han banquet" on stage, your husband will naturally not sneak into a restaurant and let you eat at home alone every day!

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Four: Never compare your husband with other people’s husbands

What men hate most is when their wives take him out for sex, and when they do it, they don’t forget to use others. The husband compares himself with himself. It is most unacceptable for a wife to say: "Look at you, what kind of virtue do you have! You only know how to do such a small amount of housework. If someone else's husband earns tens of thousands a year, you are the most incompetent!" If the husband can also earn tens of thousands. Tens of thousands, she would say: "Oh! You only know about money, money, money. So-and-so's husband always takes her to play and go for walks. Have you ever accompanied me?" If by chance, her husband has also accompanied her, She would then say: "Oh, please help me with some housework. I'm exhausted. You'd better just sit on the sofa and watch TV. So-and-so's husband is a model, not like you!" It seems like! All men in the world are good, but the one next to you is the worst. A good wife would never do this. She would not compare her husband with others. Even if she really compared her husband, she would say something like this: "So-and-so's husband is capable, but he is not as considerate as you. It's still you." Best, my dear!" This comparison makes my husband feel very comfortable!

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Five: Never be too smart in front of your husband, sometimes he prefers you to be dumber

When a man feels that the woman around him is inferior to him in every way, he will be very If you feel a sense of accomplishment, you will feel that this woman is being conquered by her omniscience. Everyone knows that men like to conquer women. Therefore, when he says that there are only two kinds of people in the world, you must not say three. When he says that the capital of the United Kingdom is New York, you must not say London. You must say with great admiration: "Ah, you know There are so many, this... I don't know very well! "If the computer system is broken, you ask him to fix it. Even if he doesn't know how to do it, but you are good at practice, you don't have to fix it. You have to do what you can easily do. Leave more things to him, and say in a timely manner: "Husband, you are so good, why can't I?" A truly smart wife knows how to make herself appropriately stupid and make her husband smart. Your smartest trick!

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: You must make your husband dress decently, and learn how to trim his trousers and tack on buttons

If your husband goes out in a dishonorable manner, someone will definitely say: "Hey, this guy It’s so miserable that we have a lazy wife at home!” But if my wife goes out dressed in a dishonorable manner, someone will definitely say, “Hey, this person is really lazy, whoever marries her will be miserable!” No! Method, this world is so unfair! Therefore, before your husband goes out, you have to match his clothes first, such as which shirt goes with which tie, which pants goes with which top. You also have to iron his clothes one by one to make sure they have sharp edges and corners, and the white shirt needs to be washed well. As clear as ever, don’t let the dirt on his collar ruin his elegant demeanor. Don’t forget to check from time to time whether the hems of his pants are off-line and whether the buttons are about to fall off. You have to get everything done before he puts them on. He won't be embarrassed to pull up his pants or pick up his buttons on the road. If you still don’t know how to do all this, learn it quickly. There is no other way. Being a good wife is not that easy!

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Seven: Never roar like a lion from Hedong and inherit the mantle of a "tigress"

The most undesirable wife for a man is a shrew. A good wife must pay special attention to this point and never become a "tigress" accidentally.

If your husband moves a little slower, you should say: "What's wrong today? Are you not feeling well? You used to be very fast!" Don't shout: "Are you useful? It took you a long time to get something."; Husband sits down If you haven't moved, you should say: "Are you tired? Take a good rest!" Don't yell: "You lazy pig, am I your servant or slave? Why don't you get up to work?" Not to mention If a good man doesn't fight with a woman, how can a good woman fight with a man? Therefore, a good wife must not roar like a lion in the east of the river. Hey, it is better to be a human being and avoid lions and tigers. Otherwise, the marriage will not be guaranteed. Think about it, who is willing to live with such a terrifying animal? Together, right?

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Eight: Never treat your own parents like a "lei feng", or treat your husband's parents like a "little brat"

A good wife should know that her husband's parents are her husband People who are never inferior to themselves in their hearts. So you must treat his parents, that is, your parents-in-law well. Don't think about your father or mother in advance. Take some of the delicious food at home and give some of the useful things. This is obviously right. Who is not raised by his parents? The key is, have you given these to your husband’s parents? Even if they don't tell you about your parents, you can think about them all the time and put yourself in their shoes with a "Lei Feng"-like thought. When facing your parents-in-law, you think they are too cruel; eat a little. You blame them for being too greedy; if they use it a little, you roll your eyes and say, "You can't go by yourself? You're an old man!" If you are such a person, then you are far away from a good wife. It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with. Even if there are some conflicts between the two, you must firmly remember that the man you love the most was raised by them. For this reason alone, you should act like the right one. If your parents treat them like that, you should also say with great gratitude: "Mom, Dad, thank you for your hard work. Now it's time for us to raise you!" And if you really do this, you will be a completely good wife. , a super accurate “good wife”!

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Nine: You must have a job of your own

A woman should be like a tree, and your husband is the big tree next to you. If you don't have a job of your own, you will become a vine, tightly wrapped around his body and growing on him. And of course he will like your attachment to him and lingering on him, but as time goes by, he will blame you for sucking his nutrients and hindering his footsteps, and he will be eager to let you leave so that he can feel free. grow. So a good wife must know this. If you don't want your husband to get tired of you, you must have a job of your own. You must be passionate and dependent on each other, so that this marriage will last long.

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：Hongxing must not go out of the wall

These days, even if you don’t go out of the wall, there are many people lying on the wall waiting for Hongxing. A good wife must be able to withstand such temptation. The most intolerable thing for a man is for his wife to cuckold him. So this is the most important principle to adhere to among the ten principles. No matter how beautiful and charming the scenery outside the wall is, you still have to kiss the grass in the courtyard. They are not beautiful, but don’t they make you more beautiful? Besides, as long as a red apricot picker picks a red apricot, smells it, plays with it a few times, it will be thrown thousands of miles away! Have you ever seen someone pick wild flowers and put them at home to grow? Even if they grow them, they can only grow them for a few days before throwing them away. By then, they will leave you on the rubble road, and you will have no time to regret it.

Therefore, a good wife should guard your grass and your yard. She only needs to look around, but there is no need to go outside the wall!

Dear ladies: If you follow these ten principles one by one, then you will be the perfect wife that men are looking for! If you haven’t done it yet, don’t worry, keep working hard and march towards the goal of being a good wife!

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