Not long ago, I met Linda.

Linda is my primary school classmate. Linda is the youngest child in the family. She has a brother and a sister, much older than her, so the whole family dotes on her.

She was confused and dependent since she was a child.

Today, she is the mother of two children.

Some time ago, I heard that I went back to my hometown and invited me to visit her home.

When I came in, Linda was cooking in the kitchen with her baby in her arms, her father was sitting on the sofa playing with his mobile phone, and the older children were playing with toys on the living room floor.

See me in, take me to my seat and go back to the kitchen.

I want to help her hug her little daughter, but the child is shy and won't let me hug her at all.

I ran to the kitchen to chat with her and saw Linda holding the baby in one hand and cooking in the other. Look at Bao Dad in the living room. He is used to playing with his mobile phone on the sofa, which makes him angry.

When eating, Linda was even busier, greeting Dabao to eat, and her little daughter, who was crying, didn't take a few bites.

After dinner, my father went back to the sofa and continued to play with his mobile phone.

I helped Linda clean up the dishes and chopsticks, put my youngest daughter to bed, helped my eldest son repair the broken plane, and didn't have time to sit down and chat with me.

Now Linda's daily routine is to work one day during the day, take her eldest son home to attend the custody class after work, and give her youngest daughter to Linda after work.

Then the eldest son played alone in the living room, and Linda went to the kitchen to cook while watching the younger daughter. The meal was ready and the child's father came back.

I finished my meal like a war and gave my little daughter a bath and massage. After the younger daughter was busy, she began to watch the older son do his homework, then washed, told stories and went to bed.

When the two children fell asleep, Linda began to wash their changed clothes. Linda has been afraid to use the washing machine because both children have allergic skin.

Wash the children's clothes, disinfect the baby bottle, clean up the messy room, and wash yourself at least before going to bed at eleven o'clock.

Just after sleeping for a while, my little daughter was about to wake up to eat milk, and the poor sleep time that was already scarce was broken.

At six o'clock in the morning, the alarm clock rings on time, preparing meals for the younger daughter, waking up the eldest son who is sleeping soundly, and sometimes quarreling with him before going to kindergarten, sending the eldest son to kindergarten and then going to work by himself.

During this period, the child's father sat on the sofa playing with his mobile phone or sleeping as if he didn't exist.

Linda said that it's not that she didn't ask her father to help her with the dishes, but if she asked him to do the dishes, she would only do the dishes, not even the pots.

Linda works overtime on weekends. Just half an hour after going to work, her father called her, and her eldest son broke his head.

Let him feed the child with milk powder, which is actually filled with boiling water. Two children, the eldest son is five years old and the youngest daughter is six months old. Dad can't even make milk powder.

Linda hasn't slept for six years.

Looking at Linda whose brow is full of fatigue, I feel particularly distressed for her.

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Today, my sister sent me WeChat and some pictures of egg tarts, saying that she baked them herself and just baked them. Children especially like to eat, and there is a lot of pride and satisfaction in her words.

As long as I can remember, I have a sister in my life.

My sister is a very shy and introverted person.

At home, my sister seldom washes dishes. /kloc-When she was 0/2 years old, she dared to strike matches. When her parents are not at home, I mostly cook for her.

Now she has become the mother of two boys, in order to make the children eat healthier and more nutritious.

Sister learned recipes and learned to cook various staple foods, dishes and snacks.

Steamed bread rolls, cake tarts, milkshake drinks and frying are now almost within reach.

Two little nephews were raised by her for nothing.

My brother-in-law is a father who helps a lot, but most of the time my sister is at home alone with the children.

Boys are always very energetic, basically charging for five minutes and waiting all day. The hard work of two boys and their sisters can be imagined.

I often wonder if this elder sister, who is swimming in the kitchen and patient and loving in front of the children, is the same as the one who screams after my ass.

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Looking at my friends around me, after giving birth, in addition to drying the baby, they are drying all kinds of homemade food.

Which mother has few good dishes? What mother is not half a pediatrician?

A better father can help take care of children when they are sick. Most men do what they should do, but mothers can't sleep well for several nights, so they take their children's temperature, cool down physically and take medicine.

Hear a word:

Only my mother is my own, and my father is my last.

Very impressive.

After marriage, this man, who was called "Dad" by his children, still buried himself in his work and his mobile phone, refused to take on his responsibilities and obligations in the family, and became a giant baby, waiting for his wife's service with his children.

This woman, called "mother" by children, fought between work, housework and children and eventually became a superman.

After having children, the growth rate of women is amazing. If there is a giant baby father at this time, this woman will never come back on the road to becoming a superman.

There is a detail in Miyazaki Hayao's animation "City in the Sky":

When the pirate's mother-in-law heard the teenager Bath say that the girl Hida was willing to be taken away by the army to save him, she said, "This girl is good, just like when I was young."

Her pirate sons listened and whispered in disbelief, "Do you believe it? Will Hida become like her mother in the future? "

Which girl is not the princess of the family?

What woman has never been gentle and quiet?

What woman is born to be a mother?

But if there are one or two starving children at home and a husband is waiting for you on the sofa, no matter how beautiful the girl is, she will become a bitch.

What kind of bitterness and helplessness is behind Superman's mother!