Tell me where Zaozhuang is first. I am from Tengzhou, according to the custom of rural areas in western Tengzhou. It doesn't make much sense to be a bridesmaid, that is, a girl who is close to the bride comes to the bride's house early in the morning on the wedding day. If the bride gets up in the morning to make up, accompany her to make up.

Then chat with the bride at her mother's house before marriage, help her get things when she gets married, and help her think about what she should take away. After that, when you marry the bride, there will be a special person to receive you (there is more than one bridesmaid here). Then chat with the person who receives you or visit the bride's new house. Before the banquet, if the bride's relatives (contacts) near her husband's house want to visit, you should also go together. When you come back, if the wedding reception starts, you start eating, and your host will accompany you to eat. Say goodbye to the bride after the wedding reception and then go home. There is nothing to pay attention to. Tengzhou generally doesn't do bridesmaids, and if she does, she is also a good friend of the groom's official, but it won't be too outrageous.