I guess it's because I often carry a backpack.
Later, I dared to consult a friend on WeChat.
"Why do you think they all call me a student?"
"How old can a little girl whose chest hasn't begun to develop? What is not a student? "
Open Zhihu search: Why am I so easily seen by students?
"The clothes you are wearing are cheap at first glance."
What a mentor! He stabbed my heart into a hornet's nest.
In fact, compared with the poor appearance, the student spirit and poor thinking in thinking have a greater and deeper impact on people.
Think about it carefully, the thinking of students and the thinking of the poor are really inseparable and inextricably linked.
I have both, and I can't understand them better.
For a long time, I have been thinking about how it is possible to get eight points in health books and fitness guides.
In college canteens in Northeast China, whether it is hot and sour rice, clay pot rice or mixed rice, the weight of a meal is determined according to 12 full.
In the canteen, cook a meal until you are full. What about the rest?
"Throw it away!"
"Do you still have a socialist concept of honor and disgrace?"
So don't ask me why I love sports but still don't lose weight.
When you eat 12 minutes full at every meal, your stomach will get used to it, and you can't stop eating until you are full.
Having dinner with two friends and their families, the couple had a brief argument about salted duck eggs.
My wife just wants to eat the yolk in salted duck eggs, but my husband says no, and if she wants to eat it, she must eat egg white.
"I only like egg yolk, not egg white."
"That you who eat the rest of the egg white? Who doesn't know that egg yolk is delicious? No, if you want to eat, eat it all. "
"Throw away the rest of the egg white! I have never eaten the egg white of salted duck eggs since I was a child. I threw them away! "
"Do you know this is a waste?"
What's more bitter is that
When eating at home, the elders always finish it last, because they are afraid of eating fast and the children will not have enough to eat.
Children eat the rest, but they are afraid of wasting it. When they are full, they still have to eat the rest of the order and a few mouthfuls of steamed bread.
In fact, food rotting in the trash can is as wasteful as being propped up in the stomach.
The part that you eat more makes your stomach more burdened and less comfortable. After digestion, that part of energy has nowhere to put and digest, so it has to accumulate into fat.
And weight gain takes away some of your happiness and increases some of your troubles that you shouldn't have.
Is the leftover food really worth your sacrifice?
We should be frugal and healthy instead of eating all the leftovers. We should cook less and order less! Anyway, eat apples, pitaya, macadamia nuts and figs during the day, and there is no harm in temporarily reducing the burden on the stomach!
If the weight is really large and exceeds your expectation, just throw it away. Merchants will slowly adjust their weight when they see that so many people can't finish eating.
This person can be a new friend, a colleague or a stranger who doesn't know his name.
We should be good teenagers who are polite and do not take advantage! So don't take it from others!
So on your first day in the company, the girl next to you smiled and handed you an apple.
"No, no, please help yourself, thank you."
Please make up your own feelings and expressions.
Imagine if you were holding this apple?
"Thank you! This apple is too fresh. I left in a hurry in the morning and didn't eat fruit. Your apple is really urgent! "
"You're welcome. Is this your first day at work? How's it going? Are you used to the new environment? "
…….
……
In the next chat with her, you will know other colleagues sitting around you in a pleasant atmosphere, and you will introduce yourself without their private guesses.
Sharing food with a person is the simplest way to express sincerity and goodwill.
You are not a government official. What are you afraid of?
Owe a favor?
Determined to get even with someone, isn't that what breakups are all about?
If you pay attention to the star teachers in New Oriental, you will learn a spirit from their experiences, which is called "crustily skin of head".
For example, a teacher who speaks CET-4 listening, the supervisor said that the teacher who speaks graduate reading in another class is sick. Can you attend the reading class tomorrow?
"neng"
Then I didn't sleep a wink all night, and I prepared two hours of classes before reading a book for the postgraduate entrance examination.
Two weeks later, the supervisor said that the teacher of CET-6 writing had been complained, so go to class.
After half a year, he will be able to tell all the courses in the domestic examination department, and he can approve new teachers.
? A college student, graduate student, with a heart direction, went to the respiratory medicine department during the rotation of departments, and met a pneumothorax patient who needed closed thoracic drainage.
The director turned and asked, can you do it?
"neng"
Although not as fast as a more experienced doctor, it was successfully completed.
He felt on the phone: no!
Some patients are dangerous and urgent, and even anesthesia is too late. The patient is in pain, but do it anyway!
When we were students, we often had a clear timetable, such as when to have an exam, when to have a literary performance and when to have a holiday, so although we were very tired, we were calm and knew when the deadline was, so we made preparations before the deadline.
But at work, in society, more occasions need to improvise and need the spirit of crustily skin of head.
I published several articles in the newspaper a while ago.
I didn't know until Baidu died. Oh, it was the copyright fee or the manuscript fee!
In fact, I want the manuscript fee, but it is not shameful to say it. Just indicate the author and link in the reply message.
Red thunder saw it and said, who knows who this silly roe deer is?
I lived in the first grade, and once I went to breakfast with five or six friends at the weekend. Usually they always give me some fruit snacks. I thought I would pay for this breakfast, so I silently gave the money to the proprietress.
Everyone didn't know that after dinner, they gave the money to the proprietress who was busy in the kitchen. The proprietress said that she paid it, and everyone asked each other, who paid it?
I don't have the courage to say, I really don't have the courage to say, I have paid.
As a result, they paid the money again, and I didn't have the courage to say it when I left! And the proprietress actually accepted it.
A friend who started a business is doing overseas study training. In the past, in New Oriental, teachers didn't need to ask students for tuition. Now I do it myself, and I find that I am embarrassed to ask students or parents for tuition. The other party took the initiative.
Some students have been in class for two weeks. Parents ask: When will the tuition be collected?
He just sent the bank account number.
We love money so much, why can't we talk about it?
Isn't it normal to work hard to earn money to support yourself and your family?
Only when everyone takes what he needs and labor is paid can society function efficiently.
Are you noble without talking about money?
I don't think it's realistic to send flowers, but just send something that can stay.
So all the books you sent to the goddess were piled as high as the table, and that one was not as good as a bunch of roses you sent from diaosi.
What you give is what you think the other person deserves.
People send roses to show that the goddess matches the flowers.
You send so many books, does that mean that your goddess only matches books? Are you mocking me for being ugly?
From now on, if you contact your goddess again, you will become the wretched man who wants to dump other people's wives.
Flowers are short-lived, but the past flowers will be remembered in my heart.
When I was in college, the girls who lived in my lower bunk watched public comments. She bought 15 yuan's bread from Maile Bread Prince in Central Street, and a bag of 18 yuan's children's cheese from Haobaike Supermarket, each with six.
And I still buy 6 yuan a packet of sliced toast and 10 yuan 8 yogurt every time. ?
Because at that time I didn't know why I was alive.
Now I know, in order to know the world, I have to see, listen, eat and experience, so as to know myself more deeply and thoroughly.
Realizing this, I feel that I have just been discovered at the age of 25! The previous twenty-five years were buried deep underground, and the life course was TM blank!
Just yesterday, I chatted with the girl who lives with me and studies statistics. She graduated from graduate school this summer. Her classmates have at least three jobs to choose from, but one of her friends has none.
At that time, she advised her friends to take the CPA exam, because with this certification, she would be more competitive, and the average monthly salary of the same position would be two thousand yuan more than without this certification.
But the other party is unwilling to take the CPA registration fee.
When I was in college, there were senior students selling used books in summer school.
Once I met a booth set up by a senior and found that she had all the books for next semester, all of which were pirated. I bought a whole set and thought it would be expensive to buy a genuine new book.
After the start of school, I found that the textbook had been revised and the content had changed greatly. I didn't need the books I bought before.
Besides, I can buy a brand-new set of pirated books at the price of these old books. ......
The girl mentioned just now who bought 15 yuan a piece of Russian crispy bread is not interested in the second-hand bookstall at all. Every time she buys the latest textbooks, she promises that she won't find the wrong page number when looking for the focus of Xueba's painting at the end of the term.
The instant noodles in the supermarket are always tied with glass bowls or plastic tapes, and they have been bought many times because of the glass bowls.
Moreover, those bowls are not used at ordinary times, and when they are used, they will still be bought with the boutique for 50 yuan.
When clothes are on sale, I lose my mind and don't try to wear them. Even if I try it on, I still feel good because there is a discount.
So I started wearing a lot of embarrassing clothes. As a basic model, the texture is too rough, and as a fashion model, it is too ostentatious.
This is convenient for me to pursue a minimalist life, because it is not a pity to throw away any one.
Speaking of eating with big brother, he said that you often cook by yourself. Like it or be good at it?
"Because of saving money"
"You go to buy food, wash vegetables, read recipes, cook, and clean up after eating. It takes at least one hour for each meal, but if you calculate, assuming your class fee is 100 yuan an hour, then the cost of your meal is the cost of the ingredients plus 100 yuan. This cost is much more expensive than the take-out in 30 yuan.
Time cost should be considered before measurement.
You see, I often go to the campus. In fact, the subway is ok, but I usually take a taxi, because I can sit in the back seat and think, read, interact with students and add materials to my courses, which in turn will help me improve the quality of courses and teaching effects, and improve my ability to make money. The time saved by taking a taxi for tens of dollars is well worth it. "
When I was a freshman, I got a part-time job distributing leaflets. Five yuan per hour. You are not mistaken. Five yuan per hour. It takes two yuan to get a single page by bus for an hour and a half, and it takes two hours to distribute it. You earn eight yuan.
Working as a teaching assistant in New Oriental costs seven yuan an hour. Four months later, I got paid and found that I was still behind 500 yuan. I thought I was accumulating experience anyway, so I didn't ask again.
When I was a sophomore, I got a job cooking in the canteen. Go at six in the morning and get off work at eight. It's still five yuan an hour. As a result, I always dozed off in class during that time, and my mind was in a mess.
I went home during the winter and summer vacations and opened an English cram school for my junior year, from grade four to grade three, which cost ten yuan for two hours. Later, I told my colleagues that they were all surprised.
Why are you willing to do such a low-paying job?
At that time, my starting point was to accumulate experience, get in touch with society and try to understand the difference between work and study.
It is just too expensive. The experience of handing out leaflets took two days, and it took two days to cook in the canteen. In addition, time could have been used to consolidate professional knowledge, do experimental projects, and practice in large enterprises.
But time is gone forever, and we can only find ways to get rid of the blindness and madness brought by poverty.
So after 6S went on the market, I bought it and replaced it.
Mobile phone is not just a mobile phone, it is a tool to improve the efficiency of work and life. After 6 years of use, the speed slowed down and some apps began to flash back.
In order to improve efficiency, I don't buy dresses and masks, but want to change my mobile phone.
I want to exchange money for time.
Moonlight people who don't have any savings, why should they exchange money for time?
To make your time more valuable.
I have no ability to analyze these phenomena and the complicated historical, social and family reasons behind these thoughts.
What we have to do now is to get rid of the shackles of these thinking and even completely change it.
Some problems can't be solved immediately, but after all, it is possible to solve them if you are aware of their existence.
Luo Zhenyu, my male god, said: In this era, cognitive upgrading is far more important than knowledge accumulation.
The change of thinking mode can also be regarded as a cognitive upgrade.
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