1. Except for the special case of adoption, the engagement ceremony is usually held in the woman's home, so the engagement banquet is naturally held in the woman's home. Generally speaking, where the engagement party is held depends on which party needs to pay, so the money for the engagement party is usually taken by the woman's family.

2, but when engaged, the man will give the bride price money to the woman. These betrothal gifts generally include the expenses to be paid for holding an engagement party, so the money equivalent to the engagement party is actually paid by the woman first and then the man through the betrothal gift. Yes, the form of women.