Some people think that I finally retired and don't want to go to work anymore. I want to grow flowers, read books and live a quiet life at home. However, women are used to hard work and fatigue, and they can't be idle at all. Many people still go out to work to give full play to their residual heat.
The following is the work experience of 55-year-old Dai Dajie. You'll know the answer after reading it.
Retire at the age of 50, and the retirement salary is 3500 yuan a month, which is enough for me to live alone. My wife is still working, and I earn more than 6000 yuan a month. Don't go to work, plant flowers and grass at home, and don't worry about food and clothing.
I have two sons. At the beginning, family planning was very strict. We spent a lot of money and connections to give birth to a second child. Both children lived up to expectations and were admitted to the university. They all took part in the work when I retired. I don't feel any pressure.
I remember when I was young, I had to take care of my children and husband all year round, and even cooked and did housework when I was sick. It really suffered a lot.
Now that I have finally retired, I just want to enjoy life. I bought a lot of flowers on the balcony. I usually follow the drama, brush my mobile phone and occasionally dance square dance. My life is so happy. My husband eats in the company and I cook by myself. It's too simple.
After two or three months of such a relaxed and happy life, I can't stand it. I'm used to being busy at ordinary times, but when I'm free, I feel it's all wrong and decide to find another job. I am still young and can do a lot of work. It costs a lot of money for two sons to get married.
After running for several days, I couldn't find a suitable job. I also have a little cultural background and don't want to sweep the road. I can't find a suitable person for someone under the age of 50.
Later, a sister in the village introduced me to the people's hospital as a cleaner. At first, I refused. I said no mopping, no toilets.
My sister said, "Don't worry, I know you are a cultured person. How can I let you do those jobs? Although you are a cleaner, you don't have to do cleaning. You just need to sit at the door and check the patient's health code.
Just register the patient's information and ranking, because we belong to a property management company, and the employees recruited are security guards and cleaners, and cleaners are just a name. "
I listened to her and agreed. I accompanied her to the hospital the next day.
My main task is to check the patient's health code and travel itinerary at the entrance of the hemodialysis ward, and then let them register the flow chart. I will arrange a place for them to go in for hemodialysis.
This job looks easy, but it's actually very tiring, because most of the people who come here are elderly people, and their children gave them smart phones, but they can't use them. I have to open their health code and travel itinerary every time, and I have to pick up 50 or 60 patients in the morning. It takes a lot of time to check these things.
Because all the people who come to hemodialysis are acquaintances, they all have this disease and have to come to dialysis three times a week. Some of them have been on dialysis for more than ten years. The hospital is more familiar to him than his home, so he is tired of reading his health code every day, so he refuses to cooperate and show it to me. I can only persuade him patiently until he shows me.
Every patient who goes in should fill in the flow chart and take his temperature. Many old patients who have been doing it for several years refuse to fill it out, saying that they can't write. I can only ask him and help him fill it out. He is still impatient, and I can't lose my temper. I can only persuade him gently. This job is indignant.
Especially some patients, who are ill, irritable and bad-tempered. They got angry with me for no reason when they came. The hospital stipulates that they can't go in until then. Those ill-tempered patients will go in and make a scene at the door as soon as they arrive. I have cried several times.
Besides being angry with the sick, we should also be angry with the leaders. If a patient can't find the code, the leader will scold you angrily for more than half an hour.
And the salary is not high, it is only 3000 yuan a month. I was so angry that I didn't want to do it several times. I held back at the thought of staying bored at home.
Later, after cooking for a long time, I gradually got acquainted with the patients and my attitude was much better. Many patients often bring me breakfast, and also bring me some home-grown lychees and longan before eating.
Some elderly patients, whose children are not around, are bored and often call me to chat. We get along like friends, and gradually I like this job.
In fact, life is like this, bitter and sweet, sour and salty. Work will be very tiring and you will have to suffer. Come to work on time every day. Rain or shine, you can't be a minute late.
But it is these rules that bind us. When you are not at work, you don't want to move when you lie down. We think it's okay not to eat for a day. Instead, I became lazier and didn't want to move. The more we lie down, the less we want to get up. It is precisely because no one restrains ourselves that we become so lazy. It is good to have rules to restrain yourself.
I worked in this hospital for five years and had a good time. I made many friends. Then my eldest daughter-in-law gave birth to a baby. I have to take care of her childbirth, and then I have to help her take care of the children. I resigned.
Life with children is also very busy. Don't look at a child who has nothing to do. Actually, this troublemaker can make you do nothing.
Although the days when I take care of my children are always restless, and the family has just cleaned up and he has made a mess, I feel that I have lived a full life.
People like to be busy when they are old. Besides, I've worked hard all my life just to have a room full of children. In the days when I take care of my children, there are worries and happiness. It's really sweeter than eating honey to see my grandson stuffing delicious food into his mouth. I will teach all the knowledge I have learned to my grandson. He will be my student soon.
Write to the end:
There is no specific standard for women to find a job after retirement, and it depends on their own situation. If you are a quiet person, like planting flowers and reading books, you can stay at home and enjoy the rest of your time after retirement.
If you are a restless person, you can find a job to exert your residual heat, and at the same time, you can realize that more colleagues and friends can participate in outdoor activities and make your heart younger.
Do you want to find a job after retirement? Everything is based on health. You can use any method that you think is more helpful to your health. But all the old people can live the life they want and enjoy their old age.