After getting up in the afternoon, I was tired of reading. Open the phone and see an article written by a friend-"How to get rid of bad habits". It is the type of "story+sentiment = philosophy". The philosopher took a group of students to sit on the grass and asked them how to get rid of weeds on the grass. The students expressed their opinions, but they didn't give the answer the philosopher wanted, so they were asked to leave and get rid of weeds in their own way. A year later, when the students came back, the original gathering place became a crop field full of millet. The philosopher said: There is only one way to get rid of weeds, and that is to plant crops.
Feelings of friends: We can't get rid of a bad habit, we can only replace it with a good habit.
Seeing this, I can't stand it. Has the brainwashing and indoctrination of chicken soup for the soul become so illogical and unscrupulous? I can't stand it!
No matter what other chicken soup is like "planting crops and weeding", in this room, philosophers and students sit on the grass and explain that grass provides them with a place to live. Why should we remove the grass that provides them with rest? When we meet again the next year, will the philosopher cook millet soup for the students?
Maybe I think it's a little extreme, but I don't think planting crops is the best way!
Good habits are not formed. Habit is spontaneous from the inside out, and the inside is the heart. Only a strong heart can spread good habits naturally. How to cultivate in the heart? Although I don't fully understand it, I just want to say that treating everyone I meet, everything I have experienced and everything I know as saints, enlightening, understanding, enlightening and understanding from them, and going on until my heart is pure, this process is also a process of habit improvement, which will eventually become a good habit in the eyes of others. Maybe I am not satisfied with it myself. Habit is just one of the manifestations of inner accumulation.
Dialectical view of philosophical problems ―― learning to question. Weeds are bad? Why weed and grow crops? When weeds are used, crops don't have to be harvested? Don't crops grow weeds, too? Therefore, planting crops is not the best way to eliminate weeds. This philosophical question is a kind of chicken soup for the soul, but it is no longer applicable to the 30-year-old. It is better to have less contact with chicken soup-style brainwashing.
Weeds are like distractions and bad habits, and crops are like right paths and good habits, but crops also need to be harvested one after another, and there is nothing but food. Then why not plant a few trees, and in a hundred years, they will become towering trees with shade. When the trees reach the towering trees, they will bathe in the sun. When the trees are cold, people will have fun, but weeds will not grow.
Weeding is like nourishing the heart, weeds are removed once, crops are removed year after year, and trees are not removed; Weeding requires determination, crops need care, and planting trees is nourishing the heart. People's fame and fortune cannot be inherited by future generations. Only by passing on the determination to weed, the intention to plant crops and the effort to plant trees can generations be in an invincible position. Determination and intention are easy, but it is difficult to cultivate a strong heart!
Finally, I commented on my friend's article: your article is completely fooling people, isn't it? Complete the task in order to complete the task? It seems that you are still exercising your heart! I'm not!