Is it because you are too lazy? Mom: (Sweating profusely, embarrassed expression) Didn't I take care of you at home? I go to work, who will take you to and from school, who will accompany you to practice the piano, and who will cook you so many delicious foods every day? Daughter: I want you to go to work. Mom: What made you think of this? Daughter: Rui Rui's mother took her abroad to play, saying that she didn't have to spend money by herself. It's from her mother's company. Mom: Didn't I take you abroad too? Daughter: That's different. You took me out with my father's money, not our own. The car driven by Rui Rui's mother was also given by the company. I think her mother is very capable. Mom: That's good. I go to work. Just like Rui Rui's mother, she can't go home for dinner every day, nor can she take you out to play or practice the piano every week. You are always busy with your work and can't eat the food cooked by your mother. Daughter: Really? Then I won't have to practice piano and eat pizza here every day. Mom: (silent) Daughter: And Lele, whose mother is a doctor, has gifts from others at home. Mom: Are you envious? Isn't the life your mother gave you good enough? Daughter: Good is good. It would be better if you were particularly capable. Stay-at-home mothers can also work. In fact, this mother has answered her own question. Stay-at-home mothers also have their own values, careers and skills, but they are more free. So here, the first thing to discuss is not the value of stay-at-home mom, but a clear understanding of the concept of stay-at-home mom. What is a stay-at-home mom? Many people think that a stay-at-home mother is a woman who quits her job and takes care of her children at home. These women's families have enough financial support, and they don't have to go out to work, so they can put all their energy, time and love on their babies. People can't help asking, if there is such a mother, and her family has enough financial resources to support her not to work and has plenty of time to spend, but at the same time, she has hired two nannies, one specializing in housework and the other specializing in taking care of the baby. This life is far from the baby, can she still be called a full-time mother? I believe many people will hesitate on this issue, so the measure of stay-at-home mothers is not whether the mother has a job or not, but how much time and energy can be allocated to the baby. I have my own career or work, flexible working hours, and even take care of my baby at work, so I don't have to go out to work from nine to five like ordinary people. Such a mother can be called a full-time mother. In this sense, stay-at-home mothers can arrange their own time, which can not only ensure that they get along with their babies, but also get a certain return by virtue of their own skills. With your own social circle, there will be no such problems as "no ability" and "backward representatives". How do stay-at-home mothers find their own value? How do stay-at-home mothers find their own value? It is suggested that mothers should not give up their hobbies and specialties even at home after giving birth to their children. They can write blogs, manuscripts, baby recipes and sell things online. As full-time mothers, they can do their own things while their babies are sleeping, resting or playing, and get some financial rewards. I have a friend who studies law. Although she likes literature, it is a pity that her usual busy work almost kills her interest. She has been on vacation since she got pregnant. Pregnant women are bored at home and regain their old hobbies. Novels and essays, everyone. After confinement, novice mothers who have read more than 100 books can't help it. Every day when the baby sleeps, she begins to write novels at the starting point. The first novel received a mediocre response, and the second novel began to applaud. The website signed a contract with her and paid the manuscript fee. My baby is over 2 years old, and he is still writing novels at home on holiday. The income from writing novels every month is actually six or seven thousand. She smiled and said that it was just a hobby at first, but later she found that she could make money from milk powder, and now it has become a "main business". It only takes her 4 hours to write 3000~4000 words every day, and the baby takes a nap for 2 hours and sleeps for 2 hours at night. She wakes up naturally every day, cooks three loving meals and two exquisite snacks for the baby every day, and discovers every detail of the baby's growth every day. Her life is much more exciting and rich than before. I believe that such a mother is financially independent and will not fall behind the times, and her daily working condition is also convenient for her to resume work and rest anytime and anywhere in the future. Who can say that such a stay-at-home mother is a parasite attached to the family? Which baby will feel inferior and say that such a mother is inferior to other people's mothers? A successful stay-at-home mom should never give up anything except the baby's growth. There are mothers who go online every day to dry illustrated baby meals and websites to pay the manuscript fee; A mother wrote a baby diary and published it in a magazine: a mother always records her baby's reading and writes book reviews, and now the publishing house asks her to translate children's books; Some mothers have developed from buying baby clothes online to selling baby clothes on Taobao; My mother used to be a doctor, and she was frequently invited to class by the Yuezi Center during the holidays after giving birth to the baby.