During the four-month baby mania, many novice parents will encounter a problem, that is, a few months old baby will be very grumpy and always cry, which is actually something that every parent will experience. Let's learn about four-month-old baby mania.
Four-month-old baby's manic period 1.4-month-old baby has irritability, which may be caused by abdominal discomfort, stomach pain or indigestion, or it may be caused by baby's teething period, so it will also cause irritability.
If the baby is artificially fed, parents can give the baby plenty of water, which can prevent the child from getting angry and reduce irritability. Also pay attention to the warmth of the baby's abdomen, which can also reduce the baby's irritability. When the baby grows teeth, the baby's irritability symptoms will gradually disappear, usually in about two weeks, and some children will be longer.
The reason why the baby has a bad temper.
1, the baby doesn't feel well. When the baby feels uncomfortable, because he can't express it correctly in words, he will show it in his own way, that is, crying and attracting the attention of adults.
2. The reason why the baby has a bad temper may be related to the mother's mood during pregnancy. Because in the mother's belly, it will be more or less affected by the mother's mood, and over time, it will also lead to the baby's emotional instability.
3, the influence of the surrounding environment. In fact, babies are very sensitive to their surroundings. If the surrounding environment is not what they like, their temper will become very grumpy.
What should the baby do if he has a bad temper?
1, the mother can play some gentle and relaxing songs when the baby is grumpy or at bedtime. This can gradually create a relaxed and happy atmosphere for the baby.
2. When the baby loses his temper, the mother can appease him as much as possible and let him feel love and protection, which can effectively slow down the baby's mood.
Four-month-old baby manic period 2 How to guide his mood when he loses his temper?
Understand children in an emotional way.
When a person's mood fluctuates violently, the limbic cortex will burn violently and repeatedly like a flame, which in turn controls your brain. At this time, you will lose the ability to think, reason and feel, that is, your "lid has been opened." When we meet a child who has a bad temper and loses his temper, we must first deal with the child's emotions and express the child's fiery emotions in a * * * way, and then deal with the root of the problem. This will be more meaningful and effective.
Speak your feelings for your children.
The study of brain imaging has repeatedly proved that expressing a person's strong emotions in words can gradually calm this person's heart. It means: "Say it, and you can catch it." For example, if you give toys to other children without their consent, and the baby loses his temper and fights with you, you should say, "Oh, are you angry because your mother gave your toys to others?" You have to ask your permission to give it to other children? "
You can tell your children your emotions and talk with them on this topic, which will not only calm their hearts, but also let them learn to speak for themselves gradually.
Try to calm the baby's mood.
Some things can make the baby angry to death, but in the eyes of adults, it is nothing at all. If you say "OK, it doesn't matter, OK" at this time, it is to ignore the child's emotions and feelings, and even make the child more angry. If you can tell your child how strongly he feels at this moment, "You are so angry that you don't want to wear these socks at all. You're saying, "No socks!" But it's cold outside. You really need to put on socks. Come on, put socks on your feet, will you? "Children can calm down and listen to your encouragement and opinions.
How to treat the baby's confrontational behavior in the four-month manic period?
Situation 1: When you don't want to eat.
Create a restaurant atmosphere. Eating in the same atmosphere at home every day will inevitably make children feel bored. Mothers can take the initiative to let their children "order food", or make their own recipes and put disposable paper plates and napkins on the dining table to create a fresh atmosphere in the restaurant. Try to make dishes that children don't like interesting. Try this trick: "Look at the color of carrots!" Or "cut the green hair of broccoli?" Mom can also spend a little time making the food cute, bear-headed, or brighter, so that the baby will start looking forward to the food every day!
Situation 2: When bargaining.
The baby insisted on buying this new toy, otherwise he would go home without eating or taking a bath. What should the distressed mother do in the face of the "stubborn" Bao Xiao who bargains?
Emotionally, understand; Don't give in in action. Let your child know that you understand his uncomfortable feelings, but that doesn't mean you have to give in to his behavior. For example, you say to him, "I know you really want cookies now." I also like cookies very much. But we can only eat it as snacks after meals. "Stand firm, no matter how he cries or plays tricks, he must say" no ",and the child will know that this method will not work!
Situation 3: When muddling along.
You can try the form urging method. List a few things that children procrastinate easily, such as sleeping, packing toys, folding clothes, etc. Make an agreement with him to grade the child's performance. When the child's good performance accumulates to a certain score, you can give rewards, which makes the baby more motivated to finish what you tell him.