1. Husband is for love, not for anger. To love your husband is to love yourself. When my husband wants to eat apples, he will wash them immediately. Experience has proved that the result of pushing is not only harmful, but also consumes time and energy to clean the apple. Never say goodbye or divorce when quarreling, lest you can't get off the stage in the future ..... If I'm wrong, and after the quarrel, I see that he's still sullen, I'll pretend to be cute, pathetic, elf mouse, crayon Shinchan and cherry meatballs. In short, I will only stick to him again and again. It works every time! If I am right and he is wrong, I will put on a stepmother's face and give him some opportunities to speak. He will apologize to me sincerely, so sincerely that I can hardly hold my face. 4. Try to be less angry and cry more when quarreling. Be sure to remember your husband's birthday (Gregorian calendar and lunar calendar) and be the first to say happy birthday to your husband. 6. Get into the habit of laughing when you see your husband, especially when you come home from work to open the door. 7. When you need your husband to accompany you but he can't, imagine that you are the wife of a national defender and tell him: You are busy, I can. 8. When he is half asleep and half awake, kiss him and tuck him in. 9. Pretend to admire him when he praises himself and show hope for a happy life in the future. In fact, more men love to show off their benefits to women. Just listen. Because he just wants you to "worship" him, remember to give him a positive look forever. 10. Show special excitement after your husband pays attention to you, and say "Husband, you are the best to me" as encouragement. 1 1. Since you have chosen to spend your life with him, don't fantasize about changing him. Only you can change it. Education is useless, but influence is feasible. If it still doesn't work, get ready to retreat before falling out with him. Women like men, 80% is right, but women will never be satisfied with men, 100% is true. Women always want to transform men according to their own wishes and imagination, especially boyfriends (even when they become husbands). 12. Use his money to keep fit and buy clothes and cosmetics. In his eyes, at least you are better off than every age. And this is easy to do as long as you are willing to modify it. Men are willing to pay for the beauty of their wives. In fact, a really good man is often willing to spend money on his beloved woman, because it is a kind of enjoyment for him. In his eyes, when a woman spends his money, she looks the cutest, just like a blooming flower, especially delicate and charming. Men feel satisfied, proud, valuable and meaningful for making money. 13. Husband's shortcomings are divided into two parts. There are no absolute shortcomings and advantages in the world. If he is lazy, then he will have more rest time; If he has no money, then he is less likely to cheat; If he is ugly, the possibility of a third party will be less; If he is not motivated, he will focus all his attention on you. 14. When a man is working, studying and thinking, don't try to shift his husband's attention to you. Because they are tired of running for the same family, the only thing they can do at the moment is to give him a quiet space. You can add water to his quick drink cup, or cook a pot of pig's trotters and tremella soup, and wait for him to finish his work and drink it by the scattered lights outside the window.