When I first learned to cook, I was often scolded by my partner. Obviously, he can't cook himself, so he just stood by and kept pushing him.
Once, I thought of learning to make bread. I bought an oven. My hand is very painful when kneading dough there. Cooked for a long time, it looks passable, but it doesn't taste good. He just took a bite. He said it was terrible. Why does your bread taste like steamed bread?
I had a bad temper, so I yelled at him. I said you can let yourself do it. Don't eat my cooking, buy it yourself. At that time, he said with a smile, what others sell is not as hygienic as what you do. After that incident, he never bullied me when I was learning to cook!
Once, my sister came, I cooked a meal and asked them to come and eat. At that time, I made an eggplant and fried it in an oil pan with eggs and flour. I followed Baidu to read the online recipes. It tastes good after cooking. But because it is fried, it is very oily. At that time, my sister was losing weight, and she said there, Sister, this dish you cooked is too oily. How many laps do people have to run to lose weight?
I didn't even say anything, so my date told my sister. He said: Don't say that her cooking is not delicious, sister. You should praise her. You said her cooking was not delicious, so she won't cook for us in the future!
After that, they were there, singing and drinking praises for the food on my table, praising the soup for a while and the meat for being fried tender for a while.
Needless to say, with their deliberate praise, my own cooking skills also improved in daily growing. No matter what I do in my life, I don't like people criticizing me for not doing well, especially those who seem to stand and talk easily.
Every time this happens, I will return it. Of course, if I don't do my job well at work and am criticized by the leader, I can only accept it silently and then correct it. This kind of thing depends, improvise!