1. Boys learn to play jewelry and girls learn to smoke. Before a boy gets married, he needs to go to the silversmith's master to learn the skills of making silver jewelry, and personally make good jewelry for his future bride. This is a must, or it will be looked down upon by the woman's family in the future. There are also cheating, buying one and saying that it was played by herself, but the woman's parents did not verify it. Girls need to work hard to learn to smoke every day. This is a tradition in Cambodia. Originally, the "tradition" thought that smoking can make children know the bitter, sweet and sour taste in people's daily production and life, especially strong smoke can refresh people, and they will never get lost no matter how far they walk in the boundless forest. By the age of fifteen or sixteen, if a girl can't smoke, she will be considered unattractive or even immoral.
2. Girls' "date". When a girl reaches the age of marriage, her parents will shut her up in her room and not let her go out. This period of time is called "the date of concealment". According to the wealth of the family, the cover date can be set at three months, six months or one year. At the beginning of the cover date, the girl's parents will invite the monks to recite the scriptures and bless them. No man, even his father and brothers, can see the girl when she is out of the sun. Eating, sleeping and bathing are all in the room. You can't eat fish, meat, etc. You can only be vegetarian, otherwise you will be unfortunate. After the end of the cover date, parents allowed their daughters to find someone to marry.